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Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 19:24

Hi there, Would really appreciate some advice on this. Took a pregnancy on 8th Jan that was positive. Took a clearblue digital yesterday (Thursday 10th) that says 1-2 weeks. I had a drunken liason with someone on 6th December (did not cum inside me, no real penetration at all) then had a normal period around 14thDecember. I then had full sex with my ex around 22/23rd December. Any clues when I could have conceived I'm tearing my hair out and sick with worry. I'm not sure how long my cycles are around 28-30 days I think. It's all so confusing. Any replies would be really appreciated thank you

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MyDcAreMarvel · 11/01/2019 19:27

About 26th December.

MyDcAreMarvel · 11/01/2019 19:29

Clearblue 1-2 means you are 3-4 weeks pregnant. Day one of your pregnancy was 14th December.

Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 19:30

So you don't think the bleeding in between could have been implantation bleeding?also I didn't have sex on the 26. So confused Sad

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MummaGiles · 11/01/2019 19:30

It will be your ex’s

hshavshejwhg12 · 11/01/2019 19:33

Sounds like ur ex’s... the guy on the 10th didn’t finish the job then I doubt it can be his

jpclarke · 11/01/2019 19:37

It's your ex's.

Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 19:38

True but pre cum can get u pregnant can't it?

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dottyp0104 · 11/01/2019 19:47

Hi
It has to be your ex's your dates are almost the same as mine. My period started 17/12 and i got my first positive test on monday. My clearblue says 1-2 today.i would be fairly confident your exactly the same

Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 19:51

Oh congratulations to you! Thank you so much for that I really hope u are right. When was your conception date do you think? I'm worried because I thinking 'was the bleeding implantation' and also I know some have normal periods whilst pregnant I want to be happy and enjoy my pregnancy with my ex who I have a child with already and we want to try and get back together but I just can't with the constant thoughtthis other guy could be the father

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dottyp0104 · 11/01/2019 20:06

You wouldn't be getting a 1-2 if it was from 6th Dec x

Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 20:10

Are those tests quite accurate then in your experience?

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dottyp0104 · 11/01/2019 20:14

Yes don't think there is any clearer. If you conceived from 6th your levels would have been higher. I think you can relax... shame you can't have a glass of wine xx

Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 20:19

Thank you. Yes a glass of squash it is! I'm going to buy another one and do it with first morning urine

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Lellybelly54 · 11/01/2019 20:20

As I did the last one in the afternoon x

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MyDcAreMarvel · 11/01/2019 21:07

Nonit duesbt matter that you didn’t have sex in the 26th ,sperm lives for up to five days.

MyDcAreMarvel · 11/01/2019 21:07

Ahh should say no it doesn’t matter.

boodles101 · 12/01/2019 07:49

It will be your ex's. My last period was 13th Dec, had sex 23,24,25,26 Dec and got bfp on the 8th too. So your cycle is pretty much same as mine.

Lellybelly54 · 12/01/2019 08:43

Ok thanks

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Lellybelly54 · 12/01/2019 09:12

That's great-thank you!these replies have made me feel much more relaxed about the whole thing although still a stupid niggling doubt!x

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Lellybelly54 · 21/01/2019 21:07

UPDATE:Had an early scan last week a d they said it it's very early (around 5 weeks) she said 14th December must have been a proper period...mum still not 100% convinced going back in 2 weeks to check all is well x

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Lellybelly54 · 21/01/2019 21:08

That meant to say I'M not 100% convinced not MUM lol no way I'd be telling her all this

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