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First time trying to conceive question

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IrnBruAndTwiglets · 10/01/2019 23:09

DP and I started trying this cycle. I know the chances of conceiving on our first go are really slim, I'm getting my hopes up but trying to be realistic at the same time!

Before every period I always get the same symptoms: bloating, upset stomach and my mood goes a bit all over the place. I'm getting all of these. The only difference is that my nipples have been really tender when touched. I've never had this before and because it's completely new for me, it's the one thing that's got my hopes up. They've been like this for ten days in a row.

I took a clearblue test and got a BFN Sad I know nobody on the internet can tell me if I'm pregnant... I just wondered if anybody has been sure there period is imminent because you had all your usual tell tale signs, but then got your BFP?

Thanks Smile

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Woodward12 · 10/01/2019 23:49

Try a first response test, I found them much more accurate early doors.

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 11:36

Thanks Woodward12 I'll nip out to Asda today. They're only £6 for two so will pick up a few.

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Bluebell9 · 11/01/2019 14:26

When is your period due?

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 14:51

I'm due my period tomorrow, so not long to find out one way or the other. I took the clearblue test two days ago and it said it could detect hcg up to five days before so when it came up negative I thought oh well, we'll try again next month. I've been looking up pregnancy symptoms but although I keep seeing sore boobs, I don't see sore nipples specifically. Maybe I'm reading too much into it.

This is my first time trying but now we've started I just want to POAS until I see a positive. As if willing it will make it happen Blush

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ImMeantToBeWorking · 11/01/2019 15:23

I have had really sore nipples twice now. Currently, and a few months ago. A few months ago I started wearing sports bras all the time, this time I am just dealing with it. But go get measured, it can be a sign that you need a change in size of bra!

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 19:53

I can't believe I'm posting this! I've POAS and got this! It looks like positive to me, if you think evap line I'll cry.

The first pic on the dark wood is at 45 seconds although it appeared well before that. The second is one minute later. I think I'm pregnant Grin Grin Grin What do you think?

First time trying to conceive question
First time trying to conceive question
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IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 19:54

Should I discount the second one because I left it a minute? Or would it still be valid. Sorry getting excited!!

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whatsthecraic91 · 11/01/2019 19:57

That’s definitely a positive congratulations 🥰

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 19:58

And thanks ImMeantToBeWorking that's a good tip, I hadn't thought of that. Whatever happens I'll get measured anyway, I've never done it for embarrassment at getting my wobbly bits out in front of the person measuring but that's probably meant I've been wearing the wrong size for ages.

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IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 19:59

Eek! I've always wanted to me a mum. It would be a dream come true. Is anyone else about to give an opinion so I can start getting properly excited?

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Cherrysherbet · 11/01/2019 19:59

Congratulations op!

Woodward12 · 11/01/2019 20:03

Looks positive to me! I did about 4 tests to watch the line get stronger 😂 congrats!

Bluebell9 · 11/01/2019 20:04

Congratulations!

piraterach · 11/01/2019 20:04

That's a strong bfp! Congratulations.

Layoverlife · 11/01/2019 20:04

Congratulations! Smile

Bailey20 · 11/01/2019 20:10

That's a positive! I fell pregnant first time too and my only symptom was sore boobs too. Congrats!!!

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 20:14

Thanks, I so appreciate you taking the time to have a look for me Smile

I'd only be around two weeks so it's really really early days. I've started looking at second hand baby clothes on ebay Blush I told my sister which I know is probably daft at this stage but we lost our mum a couple of years ago, it's been hard and the three of us have always been so close. I just had to. I know if something happened she would be so supportive and I'll keep it to just her until after my first scan

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IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 20:14

Bailey20 Yay for sore boobs!

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RapunzelsRealMom · 11/01/2019 20:19

Was coming on this thread to say sore nipples were my first sign in all 4 of my pregnancies, but I see your update. Congratulations! Fabulous news 😊

BackAwayFatty · 11/01/2019 20:44

Congratulations! I'm due my period tomorrow. Fingers crossed!

Newyearsameoldshit · 11/01/2019 20:51

Woohoo! Get excited!

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 11/01/2019 21:19

I'll cross my fingers and toes for you BackAwayFatty Hopefully there's something in the water and you'll get a BFP!

Thanks again for being so lovely. I swayed about posting it because I didn't want come across as rubbing it in anyone's face who's having difficulties conceiving. I hope I've not upset anyone by saying it was my first time trying Flowers

The midwives are going to love me for adding to the Sept madness, with babies conceived at Christmas time.

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WinterWife · 11/01/2019 21:24

Lovely thread OP and sending you all the luck in for world for your pregnancy 🤰 congratulations

IrnBruAndTwiglets · 12/01/2019 11:03

Thank you

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