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Pregancy confusion, BFP after period.

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Jessieb04 · 06/01/2019 19:15

Hi girls,
My situation is by no means normal and im a little confused and possibly looking for either opinions, experiences or reassurance.
So..
My partner and i have been ttc for a few months, i found out in october i was preggo after period being 3 days late and it was a bit of a surprise but we were over the moon..unfortunately 3 days after finding out i started bleeding and was sent to epau and confirmed it was a miscarriage/chemical. So after this we have been more adamant to have a child. Ive been using OPKs in november and december and novembers period came and went, accepted it and moved on..december i really thought was the month, boobs were hurting around the 19th (not due on until 28th) i was bloated and feeling wierd. My periods are regular to the day, i get v mild cramps the day before and then come on the next. So 25th dec i started spotting 3 days early (also very unusal as i never come on early), continued spotting 26th not needing to wear anything even overnight, then 27th started bleeding light to medium dark red blood until 29th and then 30th back to spotting. My periods usually come on quick and get heavy by the second day and last 3 days and trail off. This stopped quite abruptly. So on 30th evening i had some OPKs laying around and just did one, it came back blank circle so not fertile. 31st i did another, peak fertility straight away. Went out to get first response and did preg tests 31st, 1st and 2nd all faint but obvious positive. 2nd i started spotting light pink watery and clear CM tinted with blood, only when wiping and not on pants, started dinner time and was gone by the next day. Weird as never in my life have i spotted outside of my normal period
Waited a day and on the 4th another FR and it came back faint positive again but CB digi negative. Confusion started even more. Since the 2nd ive had period style cramps that i could have sworn if i hadnt just had a period i would come on but nothing. Now i feel more nausous, off food, tired, stuffy nose, veiny chest and boobs and my CM is like clear slippery and stringy and i feel quite wet all the time which is again unusual. All these symptoms i have accumulated more so since the bleed and would be about 5w and 5 days since last period aside from this months wierd bleed. Did another CB digi today so 6th as i had it lying round as part of a 2 pack and came back not pregnant.
After my miscarriage/chemical i tested neg a day into the bleed and very stark white neg the day the bleed stopped. But now ive had a 'period' for dec im testing faint pos and a few symptoms which ive never had before.

Its a long story but has anyone experienced anything similar or had period type implantation? Id really appriciate the help as i feel like a crazy person😂

Thank you xxxxxx

OP posts:
Jessieb04 · 06/01/2019 19:23

Im also peeing every 20 minutes and had a UTI ruled out by my military doc who did a test. Hes said to wait it out as theres nothing he can do and if i miss my next period, go back. But that would put me at nearly 9 weeks with no pre care😑 didnt do a test in docs office as he said no point. PLEASE HELP 😂

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Holly5633 · 06/01/2019 20:18

It’s not unheard of to have a bleed in early pregnancy but chemicals can also make you Ovulate early and late so is it possible you are just too early for the digital? I would test again in a few days and I’d still positive I think I’d go back to the doctors. Fingers crossed for you. X

Jessieb04 · 06/01/2019 20:29

Hi Holly5633,
Thank you for responding! Im guessing i ovulated later and probably concieved 22nd/23rd, but then i spotted 25th 26th and bled until 29th. Or i could be completely wrong and im not preggo at all haha! Despite the 3 tests coming up faint pos. Got off the phone half an hour ago and Ive somehow managed to get into my local epau tomorrow at 1 for a scan to see whats occuring so hopefully il know more soon. Not getting my hopes up but i have a lot of symptoms that dont fit in with what my body should be doing right now.

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Highlowpo · 06/01/2019 20:32

Beware that if you only conceived 2 weeks ago it's unlikely you'll be able to see anything much on a scan like a heartbeat or anything. Good luck. I had bleeding in early pregnancy and it proved to be nothing to worry about but I remember how scary it is.

Holly5633 · 06/01/2019 20:50

Good news you are having a scan and i agree it might be a bit early to see anything but they will likely do bloods to test HCG which will give a clearer indication. Please keep us posted!!

Mrsmummy90 · 06/01/2019 21:51

I don't have any advice but have my fingers crossed for you xxx

Holly5633 · 07/01/2019 14:57

How did you get on at EPU?

Jessieb04 · 09/01/2019 22:55

Another early misscarriage unfortunately! 2nd one in 3 months. Oh well onwards and upwards!

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Lammoshay · 10/01/2019 00:00

So sorry to hear that Jessie :( sending a virtual hug x

Mrsmummy90 · 10/01/2019 09:33

I'm so sorry Thanks

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