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Pregnant after vascetomy?

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WishingIDidnot · 07/12/2018 12:08

ExH had this done 6 years ago and for 3 years we were together. No contraception and it was fine.

We separated for 3 years after that and we had no sexual contact.

We started sleeping together again recently and my period is 5 days late.

I've felt like it was starting for a week now but nothing.

Is it possible?I feel like I'm being silly but am still worried

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Thesearmsofmine · 08/12/2018 12:45

All women are different, some have periods like clockwork, others may have more variation. I know when my period is due, sometimes it might be one or two days over but any longer than that I would consider myself as being late. I don’t see the need for questioning OP on this.

OP you just need to do a test and then you will know and can either saw phew(most likely) or make a decision on how to proceed. And make your DP have his tests!

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WishingIDidnot · 08/12/2018 12:49

Only on Mumsnet could a woman be told she doesn't know her own bodily cycle.

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Tiredteacherlass · 08/12/2018 17:56

Fab... so you'll know when you ovulated and then know which day your period will start. Get a test then.

Oh and no need to be snarky...i mean I didn't point out that unprotected sex with a man is as unwise idea.... he might have had a vasectomy but you don't know if he's picked up a nasty little std in the last 3 years. All the best.

Isadora2007 · 08/12/2018 17:58

I don’t know how you can wait it out. Test!!!!

Thesearmsofmine · 08/12/2018 18:00

No need to be nasty is there Tiredteacherlass

physicskate · 08/12/2018 18:03

To be fair, I used to teach reproduction and didn't know about static luteal phase length until I started ttc myself... wouldn't call it common knowledge exactly! And I didn't know you could track when ovulation happens and this determine exactly when af would come, even though my cycles were generally a bit wonky...

But maybe I'm just dumb??

Iloveautumnleaves · 08/12/2018 18:09

Have you been stressed? You might be more stressed about what’s happening with him now than you realise.

I’ve missed the odd one from time to time, it’s generally been stress.

Fingers crossed that’s all it is.

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WishingIDidnot · 08/12/2018 18:14

Tired. Neither of us have slept with anyone else. So yeah, you know nothing jon snow

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WishingIDidnot · 08/12/2018 18:16

I already said I'm late from when I'm due. I don't really want to test.

I'm hoping I'll just start. Yes I'm being an emu but from what I've read it's unlikely I will be Pg.

Although before his vascetomy I got pregnant my first cycle of trying with all my children.

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WishingIDidnot · 08/12/2018 18:17

Ostrich. Not emu 😂😂

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Starlight456 · 09/12/2018 15:31

The emu made me 🤣lol

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