Faint BFP or am I seeing things?

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Opinions please! I’m driving myself crazy..

I see it!! Did it come up straight away or after ages? Could it be an Evap line?

I can also see the lines!

Thank you for responding! They came up within 2 minutes.. I’ve just done a clear blue.. more opinions PLEASE! This is torture Lol!

@user1474909707 that looks like a faint positive to me! It should get darker in the next few days! Congratulations!! Xx

Does anyone think it’s worth getting the one that actually says the word ‘pregnant’ or not. Or a FRER? Without giving tmi I still have FMU to hand to use Lol! I don’t think I can wait another day...

I'd definitely get an FRER, digitals are less sensitive x

Can see the positive on the clear blue aswell ☺️. You could try a FRER they’re very sensitive and easy to read. Digitals aren’t as sensitive. I’ve heard aswell that you shouldn’t use the same urine with numerous tests? Might be worth having a google tho as not 100% sure

Well I don’t even think I can miss these.. genuinely don’t believe it. We’re not TTC. We’ve known each other 5 months but so happy together. Except both living with parents and I’m in 4 grand debt. I already feel my heart breaking for this baby that I know in my heart I won’t be able to keep. Thanks for all your help guys x

Definitely no mistaking those lines! Hope you are ok? Remember it is your decision. Things will work out. Wishing you all the best x

Awww @user1474909707 I'm sorry to hear that! I was in the same position when I was 19 and I had only just started seeing my boyf. It's a tough decision to make but do whatever you feel is right for you and for sticky bean. Good luck to you and I hope you're ok whatever you decide xx

Thanks for sharing. I’m 21, he’s 28. Problem is, I would definitly keep it and just make things work. I have such a supportive family and my auntie has just brought a flat to rent out that she’d let me have but he just said he wants to be financially stable and not struggle or get loans / borrow. Etc. What did you do? Anyone else ‘convinced’ their partner who was skeptical?

In my case I chose to terminate. I wasn't ready, I was so young, loved to party, lived with my mum, wasn't earning much money (I worked part time in a pub) it just wasn't the right time for me as I wasn't mature enough or financially stable to support a child! I am 33 now and just starting to try for my first!

If you feel like you want to keep yours then you will make it work hun. I have friends who were in similar situations to you and had a child so it's definitely possible for you! Like I say that was just my situation and I did what I thought was best, only you know what is best for you ❤️ it sounds like you have a good family and support group so have a good think about it and where you see your future over the next few years and if it's being a mum then go for it xx

Have you spoken to your boyf about it? Xx

He's coming tonight, i'll hear him out but i've decided to keep my little miracle with or without him. :) Thanks for all your responses! Going to do a digital one that tells you how many weeks over the next couple of days!

@user1474909707 fab and congratulations 😁 good luck with the boyf I'm sure he will come round to the idea ❤️

Don’t forget to start taking folic acid ASAP!!! What did your bf say?

Started taking pregnacare, thanks though! He amazingly came round and has been incredible the past few days. I’m 4 weeks+1 and we’re both so excited. Just want to get to the 12 wk scan so I can hopefully calm down a bit!