Jan Bus - new year, BFPs please

[TtcIAm]

Af due tomorrow light spotting today so it will arrive early morning 😢 onto cycle 12 for me, so here's my stats.

Af brought on my provera cycle 10 after 142 days

Ttc number 2
recently diagnosed with PcOS
🤞 for actual clear ovulation this month

af due 4th January going by old cycles.

@TtcIAm i did hangs head in shame lol . And it was the most negative ever. So just a late AF I think. Good luck with your temping and opks! Fingers crossed for a Xmas miracle 😀

AF is 12 days late & still BFN. Was not actively TTC but getting these -ves I'm devastated, so would like to hop on the bus x

Here is me with my newbie ignorance as well....i just wondered...keeping in mind i was 26 last time i had a child...gosh seems ages ago....would i need some kind of genetic tests because we are 38/58???
Its just that you lot seem a bit more clued up with pregnancy...feeling such a dinosaur today :(

Hi all! Can I hop into the bus please!

TTC no#2
Cycle 3
CD5

Baby no#1 was a big suprise so never used apps or OPK’s, what does everyone recommend, taking it easy and hoping for the best or to track?

welcome on board :)

cd8 for me and i'm going to begin the smep today 😂 wish me luck

I'm wishing away this period, I should be good to start on thursday. I have 4 children but they are 15, 12, 8 and 6. I'm so much older now it feels so different.

@TtcIAm we're very close together I'm on CD10 and trying SMEP this cycle! Best of luck to you! Xx

@MrsP4 i've tried it before i knew i had pcos but i've had two periods now and i'm on metformin so i'm a little bit more optimistic this month

Can I jump on this bus? Pretty sure that's me out this month as I've had pink/ brown spotting today - it's early but I'm sure it's AF and not implantation bleeding 

Anyway I'm 29, TTC no.1. Fx for everyone!

I’m hopping on too!
TTC #1
Cycle 2
AF due NYD!

Sending you all lots of luck!

Joining here because I'm sure AF will turn up in the next few days, I've had sore boobs for over a week and my cervix is not showing any signs of me being in early pregnancy so 🤷🏼‍♀️

TTC #1
Cycle #15 😞
Age 25

Sending lots of love and baby dust to everyone💗 hope 2019 is the year!!

@LylaBee I had spotting on CD25! I had it on day 25 a few cycles ago too, it's very strange! Not got any hope of it being IB tho 😞

AF arrived today, so CD1 for me. This is cycle#6 for us. Expected to ovulate on Christmas Eve. 13day LP.
DP has decided he doesn't want to know when I ovulate as it puts pressure on him (not that I pressure him he does that to himself!)
I won't test early as it almost gave me a breakdown this month so trying to take it easy from now on..

@Needadoughnut Ive decided to try not test early this month too and just wait for AF to arrive/hopefully not arrive. Although if I did I could test new years eve which would be nice going into the new year but also could have the opposite effect. Will just have to see how Im feeling nearer the time!

@Needadoughnut my DH said the same to me. He said that the pressure has got to him way too much and doesn't want to know either but now I feel like I'm going through it completely alone and as much as I want to support him I'm struggling because I selfishly think what about me. I feel the pressure too but I get on with it and deal with it. He even said he's got erectile dysfunction- he does not it's just cos he's got it all worked up in his head even though I feel like I gave him the option to go for it or not and also I barely said we have to DTD tonight it happened naturally for the most part.
Sorry for the rant.

Btw. Hi every one!! 👋🏼 think I'm jumping on this bus as due to the above we COMPLETELY skipped any sort of fertile window that I might have had.

So we're more ore less in the same boat the three of us :)

DP says we have a healthy sex life anyways, so why bother trying to figure it out?? He most likely has a point. We definitely do it in my FW in fact when we had our chemical I was sure I missed it so... (Maybe you're lucky Bear! )

I don't know Ill try to relax and just love each other. We both want this baby but it does become hard not to just focus on it.

I think I’m going to try take a more relaxed approach, its only our 3rd cycle but its hard not to overthink everything!

Ive just downloaded the Ovia app so I have a rough idea where were at but other than that just see what happens!

@emcrave ovia is good but it keeps telling you might be pregnant when you're not!

For simplicity I always recommend clue

@Needadoughnut oh Ill have a look at that one, thanks!

@Needadoughnut it’s CD 1 for me too! I’ve been tracking on Flo these past couple of months, not sure I rate it..it got my ovulation completely wrong last month so not really sure how long LP is.. Flo has me ovulating on the 29th. We are away that weekend so could be perfect timing!

Can I hop on too? :)
TTC #1
Cycle 1
Age 26

Fast becoming obsessed with ovulation, fertile weeks and baby making... need someone to talk to other than my husband whose only response is to tell me to stop overthinking

I'm now CD1 after mirena removal... it's changed my cycle! So probably ovulating around ish 29th (same as you @Jess123s) but just read about SMEP so going to give that a go to try and work out when I might ovulate.

My DP has essentially said the same, because I've downloaded flo and Ovia, he says I'm putting pressure on it and because I've been on contraception so long he won't be concerned if we don't conceive for around a year.
I on the other hand am literally counting down the days since I came off the mini pill (3 weeks ago), desperately wishing for AF to arrive to try and work out whether I'm ovulating.
Trying not to stress but it's hard, and I'm not the most patient

It's difficult coming off contraception and knowing what your cycle is doing! I'm trying not to worry too much but I don't know if this is a new cycle or not. I'm bleeding but not much... I've forgotten what a period is like!!
Also on the mirena I'm sure I still ovulated (as is common with IUD) and had premenstrual symptoms but I didn't get it this time. Who knows!

Exactly!! I don't know how to relax / not overhink it!