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Conception Question

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sn318 · 20/11/2018 21:28

Hi, Please no judgment or bashing, I am just looking for reassurance in regards to my situation, which is the following:

I had sex with guy A when my boyfriend and I were split up, on April 30, 2018. I took the morning after pill the morning after on May 1, 2018. I had also taken the morning after pill on April 17,2018 (so two times within a two week time frame)... Let's just say I wasn't being the smartest.

I do not remember getting a period in May, but when I talked to an APRN at Planned Parenthood she said taking the morning after pill twice in that time frame could definitely cause me to miss my period completely.

I took multiple pregnancy tests through May and into June and all were negative. I noted my period as starting June 5, 2018 in an app I got, it only lasted until the 8th of June. I've been back with my boyfriend since early May and have only had sex with him since. I continued taking pregnancy tests through the end of June and all were still negative. I got my first positive pregnancy test on July 6, 2018. Based on ultrasounds I conceived somewhere between June 19-June 24.

Is there absolutely any possible way that my ultrasounds could have been off by so much that I could have conceived from my encounter at the end of April or can I be 100% sure my boyfriend is the father.

I had 4 early ultrasounds before my anatomy scan at 20 weeks:

7/18/18 -- 5 w 4 d
7/27/18 -- 6 w 4 d
8/7/18 -- 8 w 1 d
9/5/18 -- 12 w 1 d

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TokenGinger · 20/11/2018 22:02

There is absolutely no way your ultrasounds will be out by two months. Baby is your boyfriend's.

sn318 · 20/11/2018 22:08

Okay, thank you for your reply and not bashing lol.

I know sperm can live for up to 1 week, so I've accounted for even if that were the case, and it was still 6-7 weeks after what my given conception date range is.

My only other thing I think that worries me is that, if I go into labor early, does that mean my conception date is wrong? I've heard that it does not mean that, but just something else I stress about.

My best friend has told me repeatedly to stop worrying about it. Lol.

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sn318 · 20/11/2018 22:08

Sorry I mean 6-7 weeks before * my given conception date range.

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TokenGinger · 20/11/2018 22:11

No bashing necessary :) Everybody makes mistakes.

Nope if you go in to labour early, your baby is premature. The success rate of the morning after pill is high and your scan dates are consistently showing you conceived in June. You honestly have nothing to worry about Thanks

mumofone25 · 21/11/2018 16:09

You have nothing to worry about. Baby is definitely your boyfriends. Please don’t worry anymore about it. It’s impossible to be the other guys.

sn318 · 22/11/2018 13:45

Thank you both.

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sn318 · 29/11/2018 19:43

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