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AF late. BFN. Been baby bombed. Anyone else?

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Ells0204 · 18/11/2018 10:50

I’m 10 days late, 14 days max. BFN. SIL has just announced her pregnancy. She’s 12 weeks.

Whilst I have never been this late or missed a period, deep down I know I’m not pregnant. I just hate that my body would do this to me now..10 months into TTC #1 and beginning to lose hope.

Ugh. Positive stories or fellow ranters welcome. I don’t even know why I posted this, just needed to get it off my chest.

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Babycakes1989 · 18/11/2018 12:42

I hear ya 💁🏽‍♀️ Stay strong and remember what an amazing feeling it will be when it happens for you especially on the journey you have had. I for one know it’s easier said than done! Just remember also as much as it’s a nice that your SIL has just announced, that’s her baby and you want your own and will do everything you can to make that happen. I had a mmc in July, we had only Been trying a month. I was hopefully it would happen again quite soon after. On cycle 3 now waiting for AF but from tomorrow onwards I will be classed as late but I just don’t feel how I normally do, usually achey for days leading up to it. Pregnancy announcements all around me too including a close friend. Had a girly evening recently, everyone around her touching her belly asking her questions and I just didn’t know what to do with myself. Cried and cried when I got in. Just know there’s a lot of women going through the same, all different circumstances ❤️ Xxx

Emmalouise5688 · 18/11/2018 14:38

I feel your pain to got married in September Sil annonced her pregnancy at 6 weeks along as soon as we got back from our honeymoon which it sounds stupid but it felt like our wedding and honeymoon just got forgotten about by family. Now all I keep getting asked is if im pregnant yet. A little part of me hurts more and more everytime I say no im not only on cycle number 2 and feel like already it wont happen whereas sil seems to get pregnant so easy x

dotmckee · 18/11/2018 18:17

Yep, not easy. My AF was 8 days late (still finding hard to track my cycle after coming off pill), BFN on multiple days and then arrived the day I saw on Facebook an old school friend announced the arrival of their baby boy. It is really hard, no advice, just sympathy, and hope this is your month xx

Ells0204 · 19/11/2018 08:58

@dotmckee @Emmalouise5688 @Babycakes1989 thanks for your replies and kind words! It can be a very long and lonely road this TTC business and I’m sorry you’re all having a shit time too.
CD41 today and still no AF. God knows what’s going on but praying to soon have my BFP and hope you ladies will too! We can do this! X

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