Real life mamma mia moment...pregnant with 3 potential dads...

[megs93]

Just found out that i’m pregnant and unsure about my next steps as there are 3 potential dads.

All 3 men were within the space of a week, do i tell them all? don’t tell any of them? if telling them how do i go about it?

I understand i have been extremely irresponsible but just looking for a little advice on what to do now

I wouldn't normally ask but first question, are you going to keep the baby? If not no need to tell them.

Secondly if you are going to have the baby, prepare to be a single mum, be honest with all 3 of them and have a DNA test when the baby is born.

Yes be honest with them x

Decide what to do first. Why the hell didn't you use condoms?

Are any of them in a relationship with you? Are you planning to keep the baby? If so, You do need to be honest with them as there’s no way to know. You can get prenatal paternity testing done - I think you have to be 8 or 9 weeks. It’s expensive but personally I would do it as it’s going to cause you and them a lot of stress until you know.

I’d also go and get a sexual health screening - done STDs can be dangerous for the baby.

If you’re going to keep the baby, be honest with all 3.
‘Im pregnant & you could potentially be the dad, but you’re not the only 1. There are 2 other potential fathers. I have to be honest with you from the start as it’s the fairest thing to do for all involved.’
Done ✅

Yikes.
Yes you need to tell them all if you plan to go ahead with the pregnancy. Did you use protection with any of them that can rule them out ? 😬

I'm not sure how DNA tests work if you can do it before birth or not. Might want to be checked for STIs too if you've been with multiple partners unprotected 🙈

If you're going to keep the baby, you owe it to that baby to tell him/her who their father is. I suppose all three men would also have to be DNA tested though. (Not wishing to be rude, but do you know/have contact details for them?)

Before you tell them they might be a dad, tell them to get themselves checked for STDs. Unprotected sex with three people in the space of a week is unbelievable reckless, and grim.

Smells like a wind up (rolls eyes)