@XLauraa Congrats, you absolutely deserve it after 14 months!
@Kb28 Good luck for tomorrow, sounds promising so far. I've also had what might be implantation cramping this cycle, would be amazing if you me and Seahawk80 all had BFP's this cycle with similar symptoms.
@Seahawk80 Thanks for letting me know, I did get a bit excited when I read your post! But I would have got myself to that point anyway. I also had some cramping which I hope was implantation. But by same token, I have also had typical pms symptoms, no sore boobs or anything like that. Oh to go back to the days when we didn't analyse every bodily symptom!
@Kaye03 Sounds like you're doing everything right so try not to despair. I'm on cycle 9 and have been very frustrated at times about how long ttc is taking, it takes you on a rollercoaster of emotions. I keep having to remind myself of the statistics indicating that anything less than a year is normal. Plus I try to find some value in it taking longer- the more time it takes, the more time I have to prepare myself to be the best mum I can be. Hope you're feeling a bit better now, fingers crossed for your BFP!
@MrsLBear I don't really know what I'm doing when checking my cervix and am not confident in my assessment of it! It's quite tricky to figure out and I apparently have a naturally low cervix so it doesn't really tend to change much. I completely understand about overwhelming dh with desire for a baby, I have definitely done that before! It's so hard to get that balance between honest expression of your feelings to dh vs not freaking him out and killing off dtd which is kinda crucial to conceiving! It sounds like you guys have a good plan and temping should help confirm ov for you. What day is af due for you this cycle? My cycles are normally approx. 24 days so shortish which has its positives and negatives.
Should I test with frer tomorrow? Will be 3 days before af due, 8dpo, will be 3 days after possible implantation cramping. No spotting yet which I often get at this point in my cycle (but also had cycles with nothing until CD24). Because my hope are up a bit, I feel like a BFN will be quite crushing and put me in a bad mood- which would not be helpful as I have work do tomorrow. Perhaps I should wait until after af is due (Monday) when I will have better chance? Hmmm, will see how I feel tomorrow.