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Please help! Driving myself crazy! Pregnancy symptoms- BFN

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Becca31 · 05/11/2018 10:02

Hi, I have load of symptoms of pregnancy but keep getting negative tests :-(

I have really irregular periods so don’t know if I have missed a period.

I have had sore breasts for around 5 days, I am EXHAUSTED some days- last night I had 12 hours sleep and I still feel tired, I usually need to wee once an hour-2 hours, now it’s every 30 mins, I have felt a little sick when I have woken up in the night the past 2 nights and this morning I had to force my breakfast down, on Friday I had a little bit of blood on my knickers (implantation?) which I thought was the start of my period but that was all I got.

I took a test last Friday and one this morning and both BFN.

It’s driving me mental. Any other ideas why I could be having all these symptoms oh cruel cruel world?

Thanks so much for any help! Xx

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MrsP4 · 05/11/2018 10:35

@Becca31 Hi I can't be much help but I'm in the same boat, AF was due on Saturday, don't loads of tests and all BFN had loads of symptoms, sicky feeling that tends to go away if I eat something, loss of appetite, headache, dark brown spotting last weds, and milky white CM sorry TMI and the worst of all of I keep getting these cramps very similar to period pains but not as strong they come and go, but when I get them they last for ages had them all yesterday evening and just feels like constant dull ache low down, I'm still none the wiser, as time goes on and the more negative tests I keep getting make me feel more rubbish! Good luck hope you get your BFP real soon, I just want AF to arrive or get a BFP is that really too much to ask! 🙈

HoustonBess · 05/11/2018 10:38

You could try tracking your temperature, mucus texture etc with the help of a fertility app so you know when you're ovulating, then only testing a few weeks after that. Ignore all other symptoms and stop driving yourself crazy thinking about it.
I think the mind can play tricks when you think about something too much! You don't really need to know the minute you get pregnant, after all it'll last nine months so you'll have time to find out!

Kelzshandalot · 05/11/2018 12:46

I'm the exact same 😒 my af is due tomorrow keep getting bfns but got all the symptoms 🙄

Egg · 05/11/2018 12:56

My period was two weeks late with my first pregnancy before I finally got a BFP. I had done about five negative tests in that time, each time followed by an evening drinking wine / beer / pimms at the injustice of not being pregnant. Turned out I was, no idea why it took so long to show up on a test. Child does not appear to have suffered from the alcohol intake either!

Kerribo86 · 05/11/2018 18:58

Hi everyone. I'm new here. I'm also in the same boat as you. My af is late but I have every symtom under the sun. I get the occasional spot of red then nothing and only BFN when I test. I feel your pain x

Becca31 · 06/11/2018 08:49

Thanks everyone. So happy to know I am not alone and there may still be hope.

I am adding “highly emotional” (spent half of yesterday in floods of tears) and heightened sense of smell (I am currently in the process of emptying all the bins in my house).

I better get a baby out of this! Xx

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Kelzshandalot · 07/11/2018 09:42

So no af for me
14dpo today took a first response yesterday faiiiiiint line.
Took a cheapie today faint line again
Bought a clearblue digital "not pregnant"

Argh photo of first response and cheapie

Please help! Driving myself crazy! Pregnancy symptoms- BFN
Please help! Driving myself crazy! Pregnancy symptoms- BFN
Becca31 · 08/11/2018 07:30

Praying for you Kelzshandalot!

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Kelzshandalot · 08/11/2018 07:40

Thanks @Becca31 I still have no af, more frer arriving today will hopefully get somewhere with those xx

Becca31 · 09/11/2018 16:25

Any news? I got another negative this morning. Think I just have to face the truth- I just have symptoms that are not related to being pregnant 😩

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Kelzshandalot · 09/11/2018 21:16

Am gutted
My af came tonight :(

Becca31 · 10/11/2018 21:59

Mine AF came tonight ☹️ I feel like I’ve learned an important lesson- that my mind can play a serious tricks on me. Gonna try to be more chilled going forward. Onwards and upwards ladies. Xx

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