Anyone want to join me in limbo!!

[Rightnow1245]

Hi ladies
Getting really inpatient now because AF was due on Thursday but only 13dpo at the moment.. I have done a few tests but all BFN.. is AF coming or am I pregnant
I just want to know either way 😬
Who wants to join this limbo thread

Ha! Rightnow1245

I'm thinking I've just ovulated first time since having DC, gooey signs have been there... Eeew sorry. And me and the old DP don't take percautions. We would like another. So ya know it's possible. But what's more likely is that my mind is playing tricks. Ya see... last time I fell pregnant my cold sores flared up, I started nodding off whilst meditating (I'm not all that newage honestly) and same this time, though I've not been meditating, I'm just extra tired. Logic tells me that I'm probably just a bit under the weather. Mad baby making brain says... well we all know how that mother operates!

I'll test in the morning, if BFN I'll move on.

Ugh I've woken up to some cramps that are distinctly period like; stronger than the ones I've felt before and my temp dropped a little, although not back to my usual AF levels. Nothing confirmed yet but not feeling good about this turn of events 😔

Sorry to here that you think AF is on the way but it's not over till it's actually here @ContadoraExplorer

I took a FRER this morning and it's definitely still a BFN so I'm pretty sure it's just a waiting game for AF to arrive now so I can start again why does our bodies do this to us

ContadoraExplorer Same! Not sure I want to waste a test.

waitingforbaby2 How long ya been waiting?

I'll join in limbo! 5 days late and three BFN...my mind and heart can't take much more. Of course my Brain is playing tricks on me and I have all these symptoms...🙄
I just wish AF would arrive so we can all bloody move on!

@SidSparrow this is only my first month of trying as I've only just came off the implant mid September so I hope I didn't come across as insensitive having my rant in my previous post as I understand people on here have been trying a lot longer it's just even on the implant the last year I've had a cycle length of 28/29 except in July which was 34 days and now I'm on cycle day 34 again and my heart keeps telling me to test but my logical brain tells me its probably my body adjusting without the implant in my system so I'm not gonna test anymore now I just wish I hadn't left it so long after my first child who is 9 now but it's hasn't been the right time intil now fingers crossed for your BFP soon

Feel like a weird lurker here, but @ContadoraExplorer I had period-like cramps the day I got my BFP - I only took the test so I could convince myself I could have a glass of wine to cheer myself up! Don't lose hope yet x

I tested again today (seriously, someone stop me peeing on sticks!) and got another BFN. However I do feel quite spewy and dizzy and have a headache. AF due on Saturday so hoping I might still have a chance. When I got pregnant in March (ended in mmc) I didn't get a BFP until 2 days after AF was due so this gives me a little bit of hope too.

Thanks all, it's nice to be able to share a little, makes the wait slightly less horrendous!

@newrubylane thanks especially for sharing your experience - it definitely makes me feel slightly less hopeless! AF due Saturday, according to Ovia which has been pretty accurate so far, and no spotting yet despite continued cramps. Might do another test tonight...

@cherrybomb86 I concur, it's the not knowing that's the worst. If it's AF, well I'll be a sad but will have a big glass of red and sort myself out before starting all over again next month.

@waitingforbaby2 i'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you but if its not, join me on the wine and hopefully your cycle will come good again next time :)

I will join AF due 25th Oct still nothing. Tick most early pregnancy symptoms, felt like AF was coming last weekend (PMS cramps) then nothing. My CM has increased massively (thick and white) and hugely noticeable but still reading BFN everyday. My cycles are dead on 28 days and now im now 35 CD.

Its so very odd but reading other forums its possible women do not find out until later especially if they OV later in the cycle.

@summermerle glad you mentioned about CM as mine was very thin and watery for 5 days after brown mucus/discharge and now it's has gone back to thick and white. I'm so confused to what is supposed to be happening :(. Took another test today whilst in dubai, now 14 days since AF due and still BFN.

Really hoping you all get the BFP you all want xxx

Yes I would love to join the Limbo!
I am currently 10dpo and AF due this weekend!
I was 11 weeks pregnant in July and heartbreakingly lost my baby due to a MMC. Have had two periods since and managed to catch ovulation on a OPK this month! Am hoping and praying this month is the month I can get my BFP again!

What symptoms does everyone have?

FX for everyone xxxx

Sidsparrow* did you test?

ContadoraExplorer when was AF due for you?

SummerMerle where are almost identical.. AF was due on the 25th and I’m also getting lots of white CM.. hopefully we are those ladies getting a late BFP!! I’m on day cycle 40 so I’m going a little crazy!

carsmith sorry to hear that I also got a bfn today! It’s so shit isn’t!! Fx for us all 🤞🏽

lemon sorry to hear about your MC 💐 good news you got a positive opk! Hopefully this is your month 😊

rightnow tomorrow. Temp up a little bit this morning and the cramps have given way to some pretty bad gas (sorry for the TMI). I am pretty regular so if no AF tomorrow, I'll test again using a FRER.

I decided I wanted a drink tonight if it was going to be AF tomorrow (DH can't have a drink tomorrow due to work and didn't want to have a bottle of wine alone) so took the FRER early... looks like there won't be any wine for me! Still in shock right now, literally as much use as a chocolate teapot in work now!

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you all and keep an eye on this group to hopefully see some more good news :) xx

Those emojis are coming up as chocolate bars for me but we're meant to be shocked and grinning face. Random!

Huge congratulations!

@ContadoraExplorer congratulations so pleased for you

Did an Asda own this morning and got a BFP then did a CBD and it said not pregnant! So I did a FRER after holding my wee for around 4 hours and got a BFN so the test earlier must of been wrong 😢

ContadoraExplorer congratulations 💐

I'm joining you in limbo now too! AF was due today but no sign of it, no usual bloating and cramping either. I just took a FRER and it was a BFN but I definitely don't feel like myself, I'm constantly hungry and I have so much saliva. Only had that one other time when I was pregnant with my DS. Not sure what's happening!

Hey AF arrived early hours of this morning! Really happy to be honest after a 43 days cycle 😬 I knew deep down I wasn’t pregnant anyway.. it was only our first cycle.. we wasn’t going to be a lucky as we were last time getting pregnant 😊

@Rightnow1245 sorry to hear AF got you but at least you can move on to cycle 2 good luck I hope you get your BFP soon

I'm on cycle day 35 and still no AF but I'm pretty certain I'm not pregnant I just need AF to hurry up now

Waitingforbaby2 I totally understand that feeling! It’s worse than AF coming I think.. I feel so much more relaxed now 😊 Any sign of AF or BFP?

@Rightnow1245 still no AF but no symptoms of either AF or BFP, it's driving me mad I've told my self I'm not going to test again I last tested on Thursday but I only have another FRER in the house but I don't want to waste it but I kinda want to test again so I might buy some IC instead