TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.6

[Delilah7]

New thread before I forget and lots of new people join ❤️❤️❤️

Hi 👋

Back on the TTC thread after losing my little bean at 10+4.

Heartbreaking.

I think I see some names I recognise- hello again!

Baby dust for all 🌈✨

@AmyRhodes, so sorry to hear that xx Take care of you, we're here for support. Sending hugs x

@AmyRhodes I am so so sorry hun. I hope you're doing ok. 💐

So so sorry @AmyRhodes

@amyrhodes so sorry lovely x

@mrsof20118 sure it’s not implantation? Would only mean a lutheal phase of 7 days? x

@crossfitgirl @sunshine1987 it did cross my mind but not sure if too much for that. I guess my body could be messed up as I bled for mc 3 or 4 days later than what would have been normal period due date. If cycled had been the same would have been due on yesterday. Wonder whether it’s just gone back to 28 ish days even though I ovulated late. Who knows...I am as confused as my body is x

@amyrhodes I’m so sorry to hear that xxx

@AmyRhodes I'm so sorry to read that!

@mrsof20118 do you temp? That'd answer a lot of your questions.

@Charm23 I hope so my lovely. But not to sure xx

@Crossfitgirl go your husband!!! That sounds a bloody perfect way to end fertile week hun. Love he's on board this month more than other times!! I also do the tummy thing so you're not weird!! I'd like to think I am but I just wonder if it's AF turning up early. I haven't had any pink spots for implantation but... who knows xxx

@mrsof20118 fingers crossed it's not AF though. If it is we are here xx

@AmyRhodes so sorry darling ❤️❤️❤️

Temp still low after tomorrow's dip. Hopefully means my cycle is back to normal though. Anyone feel weirdly relieved when af starts as at least out of the dreaded 2ww?! X

Thanks everyone 💐

We feel like we've dealt with it pretty well.

Onwards! Xx

Morning All
Sorry to hear that @AmyRhodes, sending lots of love 💕

@Crossfitgirl loving that hubby is onboard and initiating 👍🏻
I went to bed angry and woke up angry. So positive OPK was yesterday and dh was too tired after his gig last night to dtd and has gone off to work this morning at 5.30. So reckon we've missed this month 😠
Will try and dtd tonight but think it'll be too late! It just feels like every month in the FW we have busy lives, we're tired or ill.

How's everyone else doing? x

@mrsof20118 well in the best way possible let's hope it IS the end of the 2ww for you.
@amyrhodes I'm so sorry, that must have been so hard. As you say, onwards and upwards - wishing you all the luck in the world for the coming cycles 😘
@delilah7 you just never know, lots of people have totally different experiences with each pregnancy so you can never tell!

Just sat in the hospital now queuing at the blood test drop-in for my day 21 blood test.

I have also had a little fresh blood when wiping at the front on and off for the past few days. Almost like I've got a cut down there or something? I'm debating whether it's just from all the sex lately or whether I should be worried? I might see if it settles over the weekend with no sex!
Anyone else panic with any slightly odd symptom and think OMG it's cancer?!! Lol I'm so bad for thinking the worst!

@mrsof20118 yes I get that!! Feel I'm out this month anyways so some weird reason so just want AF to arrive hahaha xxx

@MrsC87 that's a shame but I'd say you're still in with a chance so defo DTD tonight!!

@Crossfitgirl all I can say aswell is i have problems with bowls before but my god am I constipated 😂😂😂 who knows. Let's hope AF just arrives normally if I'm not. Yes I'm obsessed with thinking the worst hahaha xxx

@mrsc87 I feel your pain. The month before last DH turned me down exactly at the right time. And this month, we were both completely shattered on what I thought was ov day, after doing soooo well with DTD for the rest of the month when it prob didn't matter so much. It's so frustrating isn't it? Don't count yourself out just yet though. Have you DTD in the last 5 days? If so you're still in!

I thought the other day, about telling DH:
Imagine your sperm is only fertile 3 days of the month. Do you want to waste that fertile sperm or wait til next month?

So we dtd Tues & Weds night @Crossfitgirl
It's so annoying as you wait for ages to get the exact timing and boom you miss it! Oh well nothing I can do now.
Yeh you're right @Delilah7 I'll dtd tonight and maybe that'll catch the egg.
I suppose if I weren't doing OPK's I wouldn't really know when I was ovulating- contemplating whether they are a good thing!? 🤔

@stormtrooperjulian @mrsr16 how you are two getting on? x

@MrsC87 @Crossfitgirl id say you're in with a good chance anyways because you have DTD a couple of times in your fertile week but defo do tonight 😘

@Crossfitgirl amazing! Go DH!
That mindfulness course sounds great. I downloaded an app but I never end up making the time to do it.
Good luck with the blood test today!
Some people get ovulation spotting, could it be that?

@mrsof20118 sorry for af lovely, but I know what you mean about getting onto the next cycle. The tww is a special kind of torture and in a way if it isn't going to be a bfp I just prefer af to get on with it!

@mrsc87 definitely do it tonight if you can, don’t put too much pressure on it but you have a while after the surge is detected before egg is realised then it’s alive for 24 hours so definitely still time x

@sunshine1987 I literally have no symptoms today! Had a horrendously stressy day yesterday, but thankfully the situation resolved! 😊 I'm still in for testing tomorrow morning. I have absolutely no doubt that it'll be a BFN but we shall see! How about you lovely lady?

Thanks girls, it's the first time in this journey I could cry 😢 I'll be okay later. @Delilah7 @sunshine1987