TTC FIRST BABY THREAD NO.6

[Delilah7]

New thread before I forget and lots of new people join ❤️❤️❤️

@Crossfitgirl, hope you feel better soon and good luck next week with the interview xx I love your last post about enjoying the positives... bring on the soft cheese, runny eggs and Loud Daytime Sex while we can :)

@Delilah7, glad the mri went ok for your dad. Xx

Hi everyone hope you're doing well! @Delilah7 fingers crossed for your dad!

Just need a space to share my frustration... I 'sort of' tracked my ov this month with OPKs as my periods can be a bit all over the place. I stopped testing for a few days but on CD 18 I got a really strong positive and a smiley face on CB, so DTD on that night and the next 3! I wasn't expecting to get AF until Saturday, then today out of the blue (after having dreamt I was preg) AF shows up! (11/12 DPO today) & there I am crying before 6am. It's been fairly light for me (usually I'm heavy from day 1) and been having mild cramps. I'm so upset as I really thought we had a chance this month with pin pointing my ov day! Has this sort of thing happened to anyone else?

Sorry for the long post, it's just great to have a space to share/get some advice!

@Delilah7 glad it went ok. X

Flashing smiley today. Seeing gp tomorrow re imaging my choobz and will get on it tomorrow!

@FivexFive thank you

@rj995 thanks x x

@ValidUser thank you

@delilah7 fingers crossed the results all go ok, keep us updated x

@rj995 any chance it’s not your period? Implantation bleed? x

@crossfitgirl we’re off Mauritius on our honeymoon, can’t wait!! All I can eat and drink and more importantly no alarm! Also said we aren’t going to track next month and just enjoy being away too x

@sunshine1987 I will do thanks x

@sunshine1987 part of me is holding onto that hope as it's much lighter than usual but I know that's probably just false hope!

I will apologise if I'm been abit negative & grumpy recently. I used to reply to everyone's messages be so involved & I feel I've just gone abit out the loop. I keep telling myself I'm not as bothered as before and I'm more relaxed about trying which I defo am. But it's so hard. I got pregnant 3rd cycle after coming off the pill. It's not been 3months since my MC and still nothing. 😔
Please know ladies I'm here for you x x

@rj995 no such thing as false hope, any hope is worth savouring. Definitely keep positive x

@Delilah7 ❤️ Don't apologise. The whole point of this thread is support and a place to rant when you're feeling low. We are here for you.
I'm so glad the mri went ok, I am sure if they find anything serious they will let you know sooner rather than later. X

@RanchoRelaxo welcome back and woohoo for the double opk +'s!

Hi @CrystalBlaze how is everything going !!?

@Triskaidekaphilia 🤞🏻 for you!!

@Crossfitgirl sorry you're still feeling rubbish - good going on the dtding through it all! I think I would have given up, I am such a wimp! I didn't ov until cd22 this cycle, it's painful waiting isn't it.

@rj995 I am sorry for Af hun. It's not easy at the best of times but when it comes early that's really frustrating. At least you can focus on the next cycle now.

@delilah7 your body is probably just trying to get itself back to normal. I can’t even imagine how you’re feeling, your allowed to be negative, grumpy or any other emotion you want to be. It’s stressful and upsetting trying for something you really want and it not happening. That’s what we’re here for though, for venting. Just be kind to yourself. Give your body time to heal and it’ll work for you again, I know it will x

And PS that was a pity or sympathy post I just felt I needed to say sorry!

@FlapJackered thank you...means a lot. Yeah I hope so. He was so knackered! How are you? X

@sunshine1987 i hope so honey. I guess because it happened so fast last time I'm expecting it to again which is unfair on myself and will add added pressure I guess. How're you? X

@Delilah7 Glad the MRI went ok. Don't be so hard on yourself either we are all on the same journey here xx

@mrsof20118 thank you. Your guys support is great. Hope you're ok x x

@Delilah7 I am ok thanks hun, just 4dpo and just wishing away the tww. I am so hungry for chocolate all the time at the moment too! Trying so hard to keep the healthy eating on track but I am just craving carbs and sugar! 🙄

@FlapJackered I've so failed at that too. I'm either 4/5 dpo and I'm just eating so much bad stuff Hahahaha. I am eating healthy too though. Instead of a chocolate I have some fruit! 😂 I have got ridiculously heavy boobs today though. Did also feel a pinching sensation in my side today but that's me just over thinking signs 😂😂😂

@Delilah7 my heart goes out to you, it's such a difficult process never mind that happening too, I hope you start to see some positive signs soon😊 and this threat is a big help to us all!

@sunshine1987 thank you!x

@FlapJackered thanks I know it's so frustrating! hoping it's your month🤞🏼😊

@rj995 thank you lovely!! Me too x x

@Delilah7 glad to hear your dad’s mri went well 😊

Does anyone get heart palpitations as a tww symptom? I don’t usually get them but had some last night and this morning, for no particular reason as far as I could see. Seemed a bit odd.

@delilah7 yeah, I know it’s shit but you kind of need to reset and just remember that it’s normal (but annoying) to take up to a year. And just let your body fall pregnant when it can. You know you’re doing everything you can to get there xx

@stormtrooperjulian thank youuu. Xx

@sunshine1987 but am I? I don't take OPKS zoe anything like that... only because I don't wanna stress myself out x x

@delilah7 I honestly don’t think OPK’s do anything but add more stress if they aren’t giving you the answers you’re wanting. I think they’re ok to confirm if your body is telling you’re ovulating anyway but in reality the day to day is this is this not positive i think doesn’t help anyone? I think you’re so good at knowing your body with your CM and you have sex enough during the month that you’ve got it down to a t xx

@sunshine1987 I hope so. I defo notice CM changes and pain etc around ovulation time so.
Very weird though I've had cramps most of this evening!! X

@delilah7 🤞🏻 Implantation cramps. You deserve some good luck x