Please help, really confused and upset.

[SophieBear13]

Help! I am so confused and stressed. We didn't have much of a chance to DTD during ovulation last month so I assumed I was out and I decided to take a bit of a break from trying as it was all getting a bit stressful.

So I think I ovulated on the Saturday or Sunday which would have been 29th/30th September as I got a peak OPK on Friday and another on Sunday morning which had gone by the afternoon. However we only DTD on the Tues + Wednesday (25th/26th). I assumed that we had missed it because we DTD too early.

Then on Tuesday (9dpo if I O'd on the Sunday 30th) this week I had some bright pink spotting and a bit of brown spotting too which I have never ever had before. Not in my previous pregnancy or in normal cycles. But I took a test on the Wednesday at 10dpo and it was BFN and then today I took another FRER and it is a BFN. I don't have any pregancy symptoms aside from possible veiny boobs which I did have with my first.

Any ideas on what is going on? I am so confused and upset and I just don't understand what is going on anymore. Surely if I was pregnant I would have had a BFP by now at 11dpo with my period due tomorrow (short cycles).

Try to wait until you have 'missed' your period. Testing at 10 or 11DPO doesn't give a BFP to everyone, even if they have conceived. It's very early for it to be picked up on the test.

Try not to stress too much. The TWW is hard but we need to relax and wait to test instead of upsetting ourselves with BFN's. xx

10/11DPO is still early for testing. I’m currently 8 weeks pregnant and didn’t get a positive until day before period was due, which would have been 14DPO and it was still very faint even then. Don’t give up hope just yet!