Not telling OH

[pemb]

Ok so since finding out I'm pregnant with number 3 we had4 losses in a row before last DC. I've known since about 3+4 and am now 5 weeks. Was going to wait till sage zone before announcing but DH has now said he doesn't want anymore and is adamant. DC 2 is a little turd won't sleep etc . So I'm not telling him ... simple . Not till at least 12 weeks x

@pemb I do sympathise. My DH has been diagnosed with anxiety and depression and a big cause in that was our (very traumatic...long story) miscarriage. I have since thought that if I fall again I may not tell him straight away but then I wonder if he'll be upset with me not telling him. I also think if I have another loss and I never told him then I will either have to tell him or go through it alone. It's a hard one isn't it!

Maybe he'd feel differently about having more DC if he knew you were pregnant x