Hello
No nasty comments needed please, I accept I’ve made a mistake and that the withdrawal method can’t be relied upon.
I have two children aged 2 and 3, first was conceived with a condom, second was planned and conceived the first cycle trying.
I’ve been dating someone new for a few months, we’ve been having protected sex. A week ago we where having sex (with a condom) the condom broke and we didn’t have another so we decided to continue without (we where a bit tipsy) he didn’t ejaculate (neither inside or out) so it wouldn’t be a case of pulling out to late.
I didn’t really think about it until a few days after (by which time it was too late for plan B pill) I’ve went back and tracked my cycle and realised I was on day 14 of my 28 day cycle when we had sex, the most fertile day.
I understand that it was foolish and there was is a chance, I’ve heard so much conflicting evidence/opinions about how pre cum contains no sperm unless he previously ejaculated (he didn’t ejaculate at all so it couldn’t have been from a previous ejaculation)
Just want to know the chances and if anyone else has used this method and haven’t/have got pregnant.
Yes I will be speaking to my doctor about birth control when I have come on my period.