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Praying my period doesn't come on tomorrow :(

25 replies

keanukhalessi123 · 28/09/2018 19:04

Feels like ive been TTC forever Sad
Im due my period tomorrow but it could have been today, took a clear blue test today that claims it can test up to 5 days early, 'Not pregnant'
😥😥😥
As I've been trying for a number of months i try not to get too exited as i know how disappointed i get
But this month of trying i think i've got myself in that over exited kinda thing, i'm really hoping that AF doesn't come and i'm pregnant this month!
I know if i do come on my period theres always next time to keep trying, but its been so long now, keeping fingers crossed, anyone else same situation Sad

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shivbo2014 · 28/09/2018 19:28

I have my fingers crossed for you!! The tww wait is so hard! I am 3dpo, have been trying since February and had an ectopic in June. So hoping this is the month and that it is in the right place this time! Have you had any symptoms?

keanukhalessi123 · 28/09/2018 19:45

@shivbo2014 haven't had many symptoms to be honest, but this sounds weird but ive got this feeling that i am pregnant like a gut feeling, although that could just be the excitementSad ive been trying since march so i know how u feel too, its my first baby i wanna be a mum so bad it hurts 😥💔

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Bimbabo · 28/09/2018 21:00

Hi! I’m due tomorrow and trying since Feb also. Took one today and bfn. I def feel a bit different this month. Usually get bad cramps and would be spotting by now but no spotting and some cramps but more a jiggle compaired to normal.

Every month I tell myself it doesn’t matter it’ll happen when it’s supposed to and then come the week before AF due I turn crazy. Want to test all the time. Get a bfn and convince myself that it’s fine cause tested too early, or urine not strong enough. Any excuse really!

I had no idea how much tryi to have a baby would affect me like this. I hope you both get your positives soon 😘🤞🏻

keanukhalessi123 · 28/09/2018 21:30

@Bimbabo im exactly the same and also im usually spotting or cramping by now and im not, and when i get the test saying bfn i convince myself its wrong and theres still a chance and stuff then af comes :(
Made myself even worse this month went shopping and brought loads of baby stuff ( couldn't stop myself lol )
Hope you get a positive hun, let me know if you do, fingers crossed ladies ❤️

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Bimbabo · 29/09/2018 08:51

Bfn this morning but no af so far. I look at baby stuff bit not bought anything yet. If only we had a crystal ball and see when it’s going to happen!

keanukhalessi123 · 29/09/2018 10:20

@Bimbabo AF hasn't come for me either hun and i should have started by now, dont worry about the bfn, it could still be too early, im gonna wait until the 1st and if AF still hasn't come im going to test then x

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Bimbabo · 29/09/2018 10:27

My plan too. Keep me posted 😘

Mikewazowskismrs · 29/09/2018 11:25

Fingers crossed for you all.

I was trying for a year and had lost all hope but got my BFP a few weeks ago.

It will happen Flowers

keanukhalessi123 · 30/09/2018 10:21

No sign of AF so i can officially say ive missed a period... keeping hopeful, and going fo test again tomorrow as i said i would leave it until the 1st 🤞🏼x

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Bimbabo · 30/09/2018 10:39

Keanukhalessi123 I’m the same. Still no AF. I’ve looked over my app and my cycle is normally 25 - 27 days. 27 would be tomorrow so if I’m able I’m going to try and hold out till Tuesday. I’m glad there’s someone else going through this at the same time 😊

keanukhalessi123 · 30/09/2018 10:53

@Bimbabo yeah me too its good that someone else is going through the same thing and can relate lol, i keep telling myself to leave testing as long as i can for the hormone to build up, but i so desperately want to test all the time Grin this is baby #1 for me, have you got any kids already? 🤞🏼

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Bimbabo · 30/09/2018 11:01

@keanukhalessi123 we are trying for our first also. I thought that it would have happened by now, trying since Feb. I'm 37 though so I'm sure that has something to do with the time it is taking also.

I have one test left but saving it (trying) till Tuesday. Decided not to buy anymore so that I don't test all of the time. I would test ever pee if I could!

keanukhalessi123 · 30/09/2018 11:11

Couldn't help myself and just took a test...again BFN ffs :(
Ive been trying since March and its so frustrating the waiting and the bfn and AF, but im just thinking that the HCG is just not strong enough at the moment, thats why im getting the negatives Sad definitely leaving it for a few days now, only got one test left lol need to buy more, just think the longer i leave it, the HCG will have more time to build up and get stronger Smile
Ugh just want my positive already Sad

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Bimbabo · 30/09/2018 11:20

Me too. I'd cope with one or the other at this stage. If its a neg at least I can get on with it. I'm not the best at waiting for things anyway. If I get nothing by the weekend I'll book to see GP so that they can do a blood test or work out whats wrong with me!
We'll get there!

keanukhalessi123 · 01/10/2018 00:29

Still haven't come on so this will be 2days late, going to try and wait as long as i can, and if i still get negatives i'll get a blood test done at doctors aswell, do you know how long you have to wait for results from a blood test? I havent got a clue ConfusedBlush x

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Bimbabo · 01/10/2018 06:52

Negative for me too this morning. Craved and did one!
A period is only classed as late 5 days after day its due. For us it would be wed. Blood tests only take ah hour or so but getting it at gp prob be the following day depending what time of day it was taken. If it’s late in the day might not get sent to lab till following day.

My plan is wait till wed do a test then if still neg and no period get an appointment cause it’ll prob take a couple of days to be seen and by then I’ll def be later than the 5 days. Let me know how you get on

keanukhalessi123 · 01/10/2018 16:49

AF has come Sad
Devastated, been in tears for about a hour, just being silly
I just thought this was it
Oh well, i will just keep trying.
Still got my fingers crossed for everyone else 🤞🏼
It will happen one day, just gonna try and get a hold of myself now, trying not to keep getting so upset, but cant help it :(
Ffs

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Bimbabo · 01/10/2018 17:04

Oh I’m sorry. It’s ok to be upset. I’d say healthy and just shows how much it means to you. I really hope it happens soon for both us 3 on here soon. Best wishes and sending a big hug. Hang in there. It’ll be worth it in the end 😘💕

keanukhalessi123 · 01/10/2018 17:07

Thank you @Bimbabo
You're right it will happen
Let me know how you go on
I hope you get the BFP
Xx

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mummyhaschangedhername · 01/10/2018 17:12

So sorry OP. Keep going. Good luck.

shivbo2014 · 01/10/2018 17:21

Sorry it wasnt your month! I know how dissapointing it is. I am sure it will happen soon. Its such a mixture of emotions all this ttc xx

Bimbabo · 02/10/2018 07:41

I got a BFP this morning. Been talking to my belly all the way to work. Can’t believe it! xxx

shivbo2014 · 02/10/2018 07:43

Congratulations!! Great News...xx

keanukhalessi123 · 02/10/2018 09:36

@Bimbabo CONGRATULATIONS!!
Awww so good i bet you're so pleased xx
Can't wait for it to be me too x

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Bimbabo · 02/10/2018 19:43

I’m over joyed but trying not to get too excited just in case.
Don’t know if it was but this cycle I started taking co-enzyme Q10 one a day. Read about it online.
Might just have been luck this month xxx

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