TTC, not sure if i mc

[RLR]

Been doctors finally after ttc for 9 months had blood tests they came back all fine. Then was two weeks late on AF . so i did a test and it was negative .

i then took my niece on a fast ride at the fair

the next day had a bleed with loads of big clots ( i know it sound horrible but thats what it was like). so decided to go back to doctors she said i could have probably had missed carried but if this was the case couldnt she have done any tests to find out for sure if i had.

then all she said was if your not pregnant by september come back and see me and i will refer you.

what do you think?

Hi RLR - I don't have any advice but I didn't want to ignore your post.
You may have had a miscarriage ... but if your pregnancy test was negative it is difficult to tell. Drs rarely investigate early mcs unless you have had recurrent ones sadly - which seems unfair when you are the one having the potential mc ...
Perhaps do what she says and take it from there?

thanks,
ive never had mc before

My only experience a miscarriage is at 12 weeks so it was unmistakeable (and I was having a 12 week scan the next day anyway so I had it early which confirmed it)
I think some people/doctors can seem a bit heartless if it is a really early mc -
I am sorry you are feeling sad
The 'not knowing' is the worst bit probably.

yes thats it not knowing for sure if i have had one. the only thing thats keeping me positive is i do luckly have a dd age 3 years.so i know its not impossible for me to have another baby.

RLR, my sister just announced that she is pg with her second child. Her DD is nearly 5 and they started trying when she was 4 months old. She went through a lot and even fertility treatment didn't work .. but she did finally get pg naturally ...
So it can happen ...

I hope you feel better soon and go and see the doctor if nothing has happened by September like she suggested ... {{{}}}

thats good news i bet shes over the moon .i will go to GP`s in september if nothing happens by then thanks for your support.take care x

Can I just suggest that you think about going for some acupuncture? It can really help if you have been trying to concieve for a while. It will help to relax you and balance your energy in your body and mentally rebalance you as TTC can be stressful. Although it is not a panacea it definitley helps. Good luck.

thanks rampel, was thinking about this does it hurt and how much does it cost about ?

No it doesnt hurt and cost depends on where you are. Anything from £25.00 to £60.00. Do a google for registered TCM (traditional Chinese medicine) acupuncturists. Most expensive is usually in cities eg London.