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4 dpo anyone else ? The wait!!

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Bethany0903 · 17/09/2018 07:45

4 dpo right now TTC number 3 the wait is awful! I just want to know!

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FlapJackered · 20/09/2018 20:25

@TheOneRach it could be implantation bleeding which would mean you probably wouldn't get a bfp for a couple of days after? 🤞🏻

TheOneRach · 20/09/2018 20:59

I really am hoping so... but I'm so nervous... it's the colour of it as much as anything, and the frequency... or lack of... should i wait out the weekend then and test say Monday?? Xx

LorelaiRoryEmily · 20/09/2018 21:10

Hi! I’m 11 dpo, period due Monday. Ttc dc2, took a long time to get pregnant with dc1. Trying really hard not to think about it... no idea when to test

stellarfox · 20/09/2018 21:23

I’m 7dpo! It just feels so good to have ovulated as my cycles are 70+ days right now. I don’t want to even think about feeling excited though as it’s too disappointing when it’s negative! Fingers crossed for everyone

LorelaiRoryEmily · 20/09/2018 21:32

I know what you mean @stellarfox, it’s so hard not to think about it though, isn’t it? Fingers crossed for you too

KinCat · 21/09/2018 02:38

I did a digital this morning (9dpo) which was negative. The pack says it should be more than 90% accurate by Sunday though so I'll test again then. I also peed on an OPK and a faint line came up - pretty sure after lots of googling that it doesn't mean anything though.

This is only cycle two for me so I'm trying not to stress about it. I really hoped it'd happen quickly though. Fertility friend is getting my hopes down as apparently my temperature is on a "downward trend".

I wish they'd make a more accurate test already! Imagine a two day wait, that would be wonderful (although I guess you'd still have the wait to see whether it stuck).

TheOneRach not to be a downer but I always get spotting from 10dpo like you've described and for me it seems to mean nothing. If it's a new thing for you though it could be a good sign!

Leesky571 · 21/09/2018 06:13

I'm 5dpo and today I think I maybe spotting? Confused put a post up I just really want to do a test 😣

TheOneRach · 21/09/2018 06:16

@KinCat this is totally a new thing for me, hence my stressing lol ... maybe my body has changed?! Maybe I'm having a weird month?! Could be any number of things i suppose... i just want to know though! It's the waiting that i hate!! I basically have red red or red, so pink and brown kinda freaked me out. I also suffer badly with period pain but I'm not now xx why can't we just know like from day 1?! 😆😉😊

KinCat · 21/09/2018 06:19

Fingers crossed it's your month! I started spotting today so I think my period is on its way (I hope so anyway - this will be period three after having the coil out and I haven't bled properly yet). My temperature went back up after its "implantation dip" but not all the way up so I'm not hopeful!

KatBeCool · 21/09/2018 06:35

I'm 8 DPO. Not testing until Monday or Tuesday, unless there are some severe symptoms. I'm so used to twinging, it happens after every ovulation. I've had quite a bit of creamy/egg white-like cm, kinda like egg whites that were cooked a little, which is incredibly unusual for me.

fee1234 · 21/09/2018 07:38

I'm also 8dpo today. Trying to hold out until Monday or Tuesday!

FlapJackered · 21/09/2018 07:53

@KatBeCool 👋🏻 my dpo twin! 😄
@fee1234 I am 8dpo too but going to try and hold out testing until Wednesday or Thursday. Bfn's make me v depressed. I find a temp drop and AF slightly easier to take so I am going to try and be good and not test too early.

@TheOneRach fingers crossed for you! Yes I would test on Monday if I were you as if that was implantation it could take a few days after for hcg to rise.

fee1234 · 21/09/2018 07:58

@FlapJackered that's probably a wise idea actually, I had a chemical last month and if it wasn't for me testing at 10dpo I probably wouldn't have known! My DP wants me to wait until Wed or Thurs but it's so hard!!

Bethany0903 · 21/09/2018 08:22

Well this morning I woke up feeling so sick! And the heavy feeling in my uterus is back which is so strange 😲 I just want to find out now! Getting impatient but I will wait until tomorrow!

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Bethany0903 · 21/09/2018 17:51

How are all you ladies feeling now ? Tomorrow's the day I'm going to test! So nervous now can't wait to go to sleep and wake up just to know

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TheOneRach · 21/09/2018 18:35

Good luck Bethany0903 , thinking of you

I had a very teeny drop of red this morning then nothing at all all day... but now (TMI warning... Sorry) I've had diarrhoea which was a funny colour 🤢 Sorry girls for that tmi

Bethany0903 · 21/09/2018 18:51

@TheOneRach oh dear that's every strange maybe go get checked out as it all sounds very strange and if you have never had it before! I hope everything is ok! Xx

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TheOneRach · 21/09/2018 19:43

@Bethany0903 yeah none of this has happened before... I'm most confused x

FlapJackered · 22/09/2018 06:26

Good luck this morning @Bethany0903 🤞🏻

@TheOneRach that doesn't sound fun. Fingers crossed it means a bfp!

KinCat · 22/09/2018 10:27

BFN for me and now I've started bleeding at 10dpo. It's not bright red yet but enough that I've put a pad on. I'd really hoped my cycle would just go straight back to normal after having the coil out but it seems that's not the case.

Bethany0903 · 22/09/2018 11:47

Omg! I got a faint bfp 😬 I'm actually so happy can't stop crying! Hope this one sticks xx

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KatBeCool · 22/09/2018 14:32

@Bethany0903 congratulations! So the heavy uterus feeling did indeed mean something!

TheOneRach · 22/09/2018 14:51

So girls.... i did my test today... xx

TheOneRach · 22/09/2018 15:11

I've been trying to post a photo but it won't upload lol xxx

Bethany0903 · 22/09/2018 15:42

@TheOneRach arghh I want to know 😬 xxx

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