TTC First Baby Massive Thread.

[Delilah7]

Hope all my lovely ladies have found this group can't tag you all as there is too many!! ❤️

@FivexFive 😂😂 that's brill, think we are in similar positions aswell, I am due af anytime around the next few days (am around 8dpo but have a short luteal phase) so might be testing soon too, am trying to wait untill after AF is due but will probs cave

Sounds like it! I'm 11dpo now. Thought af was late but unsure now. Will probably test tomorrow morning, then just leave it for a week. Fingers crossed for you though Rancho! Xxx

Limiting alcohol even though I'm on hols to help TTC! 3 glasses of wine on Friday is saintly for me!

Looks like a few of us will be testing within the next few days! Fingers crossed! I'm going to diligently hold off until the 25th.

@purplestar9 I hope they work for you!
I am good thanks lovely, just normal tww craziness! 9dpo today but I don't think it's likely this month unfortunately.

@GDOG35 @cupcakesandglitter is right make sure you relax and enjoy your birthday. At least if there is no bfp you will be able to get sozzled and otherwise then it will be an awesome celebration!

Good luck @FivexFive keeping everything crossed for you this morning! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@ValidUser - I wouldn't worry too much when you're on holiday! Relax and enjoy and have the Vino! 🍷

@FlapJackered how are you feeling to today? Can you believe we're at 9 DPO today?

Morning ladies. How're you all? Xo

Morning!! I’m at work, so tired & irritable this morning. Feel so achy again 😔 but on the plus side off to Wembley Stadium tonight to watch the fight love abit of the Joshua hehe

@GDOG35 YOURE NOT?!?!? He's like my crush. 😍😍😍 that'll be fun! I've got my OHs boys coming over here so that'll be fun!
I'm pretty tired too. Still got some pains which I'm just finding abit frustrating. Getting to the point I just want AF to come so I can have a clean new cycle. :(

Ok so, as expected it was bfn this morning. Don't feel too down though. My dh has, on request, hidden the last 2 tests! Just going to wait and see what happens in the next week. If af comes it's a new start :)
Anyone else testing today?
Happy weekend to all xxx

Feeling a bit fed up today, my temperature rose yesterday by quite a bit which got me all excited but today on 7DPO it’s gone back to normal. So feeling deflated. Had a small bit of blood last night too, hardly noticeball unless you’re mental like I am 🙈

@Delilah7 I can’t wait, he’s that man where even if he looked at a woman she would get pregnant will be an experience but it’s going to rain though which is annoying! Your like me just want it to come then start a brand new cycle but if I get my period I’ve got to get booods taken 2-5 days of my cycle to check everything. Oh the joys!!!

@FivexFive keep positive hun, you're not out till AF lovely. :) xx

@sunshine1987 could it be implantation?!

@GDOG35 honestly he's so sexy 😍😍😍😍 yeah im just abit fed up with what my bodies doing tbh! :(

@delilah7 would love it to be but I had the same last month and was AF coming. So think although it’s earlier than last month it’s happening I just wonder if it’s the same. Bloody bodies, life was simpler not trying lol xx

@sunshine1987 I totally agree hun life was simpler all be worth it in the end for all of us hate having all these period symptoms always say it’s teasing me

Morning ladies!
Still on the flashing smileys 😫
DH came home last night, he said let's make a baby later, we went out for tea with friends and as we didn't get back til about 11pm we were too tired and went straight to bed.

Now for some reason DH is in a mood this morning. I can't tell why, and he hasn't said he is, but I can just tell. He's snappy and grumpy.

Got a load of EWCM on wiping this morning. Ov is round the corner.

I hate my life :-(

Why does my DH seem to be more difficult than everyone else's, and why is he always fucking moody when it's fertile week?

I feel awful as last month he fucked it up and wouldn't sleep with me on the 2 most important days even after I told him it was my FW.

Now I feel like i have no chance today, and I'm certain it's the right time as I'm feeling quite horny too!

Help, I need advice. Don't want to pester him about what's up as it usually just leads to him getting more annoyed/ argument, whatever the problem may be, but also want to have sex. I just feel like it's ruined as I don't feel like having sex with him when he's like this anyway!

Please tell me Any of you can relate and it's not just my shit life and relationship:-(

@Crossfitgirl I'm sorry you're going through that Hun. Men are weird! And if you think he's moody he probably is as we know! 😂
Any chance you can DTD tonight? If you forget he's moody and do something he likes or something... xx

@Crossfitgirl do you think he could be feeling the pressure of it being your fw? Men show these things in strange ways, very frustrating though!

@Crossfitgirl oh hun feel for you. My husband gets in mood with me as he says I’ve taken the fun out of having sex now, so I’m trying to be abit more spontaneous at it. But it’s the same every month I tell him how it all works & he still thinks we can get pregnant any day of the month!! I had to give him a one to one teaching session on it he still doesn’t get it. Can you talk to him? Go out for a nice lunch together or something today?? Do something you both enjoy, you need to stay contected to each other 💙💕

@ranchorelaxo I haven't told him it is, because of what happened when I told him last time.
@delilah7 hopefully we can DTD tonight. He's moody cos housework etc hadn't been done while he's been away. Just had it out with him and told him straight. He never appreciated the things I do and always notices the one thing I haven't done. He's spent the whole morning doing chores and he was all moody about it cos he says he's been away all week and doesn't wanna have to come home and do stuff when I've been home and could have done it.
Fair enough, but. I have been bloody busy doing other things!
Adulthood is so much fun.

@Crossfitgirl I don't appreciate that either as my OH moans he cooks a lot. He's home before me and I tell him don't start dinner I'll do it when I'm home. Yet he never waits but then moans he cooks the most! men are strange. Hopefully his attitude will change now hun!! X

GD0G35 now we've had it out, he's suggested we go for tea tonight and get a curry. Haha I know what you mean about thinking we can get pregnant any time of month. Even after I explained it! Last month he refused in my FW then we talked about me getting pregnant and I was like... Well I wont be cos we didnt have sex in the FW... and he was like... yeah we did didn't we? I was like... No!!! Bloody told you there's like 4 or 5 days a month and we didn't hit the window! We DTD 4 days before ov!
And he was like.... oh.
🙄🙄🙄🙄

Thanks @delilah7.
He actually said something really sweet whilst being a twit, the friends we went to see have an 8 week old and have just asked us to be godparents, so I was holding the baby and rocking him to sleep.
He said he saw me with the baby and pictured that is how I would be with OUR baby and he loved it!
....But then went on to say he worries how on earth can I pick up after a baby when I can't even pick up after myself 🤬🤬🤬
So kinda ruined it!!
Lol.

I could kill him sometimes!!!

@Crossfitgirl well he pissed on that compliment didn't he?! 😂 why do they always give back handed compliments 😂 just ignore him. You've had a busy week. You don't need to explain yourself xxx

@crossfitgirl he needs to take a chill pill, it’s only cleaning for god sake. More important things in life to think of & do. My husband turns things into a major issue for no reason sometimes. I say to him we’ve been through so much shit in the pass & your making a big deal out of something so tiny it shouldn’t make u think twice!
We married them for some reason 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔😆