TTC First Baby Massive Thread.

[Delilah7]

Hope all my lovely ladies have found this group can't tag you all as there is too many!! ❤️

[FivexFive]

Oh ok, stat time!
30
Married 6 years, together for 10
Came off the pill around March and started 'proper trying' in August.

Currently waiting to see if AF turns up in the next week or so. Resisting buying tests until this time next week... Because you can't obsessively poas if you have no sticks to pee on :)

[ValidUser]

Just thinking this through logically.

If implantation can happen from 6-12 dpo (and 9dpo is apparently the most common) and I had a negative FRER at 10dpo, I could still be in?

If implantation is the point at which HCG is produced, I might be?

Don't feel pregnant and had spotting this morning, but dare I hope a small bit?

[CookieWaffle]

@ValidUser lets say in theory you implanted on the average day (9dpo). Had a little bleed from it on 10-11dpo. Takes a few days for hormone levels to appear on tests, so 11-12dpo might give a very faint result. This is all in theory of course :)

Another theory, you implant at 12dpo, don't see any faint lines til 14dpo.

Both are possible, so yes you're not out yet!

[Delilah7]

@ValidUser I'd say you're still in with a chance hun! Not out till she actually turns up!

Got my DTD for the day 😈 managed to distract him by a simple answer to a question 😂

[Malichick]

Hi Ladies,
Age:25
Cycle 2
CD11
Had a little break off mumsnet but I’m back to get me through the tww once I ovulate :D
Good Luck to us all x

[MrsR16]

@Malichick we're nearly exactly the same! I'm 25, cycle 2 but CD12!

[Charm23]

Hello! Can I join?

I'm 28
Been with DH for 7 years
We're TTC #1
We're on Cycle 7

Was ill last cycle and ill again this cycle - do you think it could affect things?

[Delilah7]

@Charm23 welcome lovely! I'd say no, but it might make you feel abit more shit and groggy towards the whole TTC. Go easy on yourself being unwell and having that stress aswell as this can make you feel really low. 😘

@Malichick welcome back my dear xx

[KatBeCool]

Here's me
Age 40
Cycle 5
Married 1 year, together 3
2 dogs 😉

[KatBeCool]

@FlapJackered are you taking folic acid? I swear it shortened my cycle from 30 days to 24, only one thing that explains it. I'm not thrilled but I know I need to go be taking it.

[sunshine1987]

Stats time;
31 years young
Cycle 4 trying properly but been off the pill for 9 months and charting since then
Newly married 💜

[Charm23]

@Delilah7 Thanks! :) Yeah I'm hoping it doesn't reduce our chances other than wanting to DTD a bit less! But I'm determined to DTD whether I'm feeling crap or not - MUST. MAKE. BABY!!

[WishingonaStar77]

Hey folks,

Am a complete newby to Mumsnet. May I join in please?

41 years old
3 miscarriages 😢
Awaiting recurrent MC test already had some
Signed up for acupuncture for egg quality
Just on 2nd cycle after last MC and in my 2ww

X

[Delilah7]

So my OPK now looks weaker than before :( but I have drank a little since the last one. Bet I've missed my chance

[Newlou]

Brand new!!
32
Implant removal on Monday, got vitimans ready, bloody terrified, all my friends have kids and just wanna lecture me on what to do, can you all be my new friends haha x

[ValidUser]

Hello @WishingonaStar77 and @Newlou! Welcome to our world where nothing is TMI and our uterine walls are open for business.

On my cycle one my back went out so we used syringes full of jism. You are complicit in this.

Please don't run away. I'm only scary sometimes.

[WishingonaStar77]

@validuser thanks for the welcome.

Nothing scares me much anymore.. have nothing to lose but everything to gain. We're all in it for the bean 🤗 so looking forward to sharing the love x

[MrsC87]

So you know how I said Af was on her way.....well nothing....spotted maybe twice today...no cramps....god knows what's going on....

[cupcakesandglitter]

Hi newbies ❤️ yes @ValidUser is completely right, no TMI here 😂

@Delilah7 have you been DTD a lot? Or was it just the other day? X

@MrsC87 could possibly be IB? Xx

[cupcakesandglitter]

Ooh I also forgot to add - this is the first weekend DH has not agreed to do any over time (thank god) so I have him all to myself...
Decided to drag him with me to do all the food shopping and I was walking around literally dripping!! Don't know wtf is going on but I am soaked - has anyone else had this? Had a nice big blob of creamy AF, I think all the rest of it is just watery stuff idk? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Looks like I'll need a joint shower... 😈

[Delilah7]

@cupcakesandglitter we've DTD This week, not a lot I know and plan to tomorrow and Monday hopefully. You get that joint shower girl 😈

[Delilah7]

@cupcakesandglitter sorry DTD three times this week **

[ValidUser]

Welcome @Charm23.

Thanks everyone for the reassurance! Out for DH's 30th and sticking to the mocktails!

[MrsC87]

No idea @cupcakesandglitter had spotting since Wednesday now but not turning into anything as yet. I really do hope it's IB though! 🤞

[cupcakesandglitter]

@Delilah7 that's not bad at all though!! Just try and do it when you can 😊 have you had any CM yet? Xx

@MrsC87 fx for you!! Are you going to test in a few days? Xx