No sign of AF, is there a chance?

[Topsy15]

I need some help, second cycle TTC post heartbreaking miscarriage... I took EPO for first half of cycle and a conception vitamin as well as I have a short luteal phase, normally 11 days... total cycle is normally 35 days, I am on cd 36. We bd on cd 20,21 and 22 and I had Ewcm from cd 22 for 3 days. My period is late and I feel similar to last time I was pg, but bfn today on Tesco test :( should I accept it must be a no this month or is there a chance? Looking to chat with someone who understands this torture xx

Hi Topsy15 so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I went through it 2 two years ago so I know how awful it is.

As for your current cycle there is definitely hope! Sounds like you BD at perfect times and good sign if you are late. A lot of women do not get their positives until even a few days (or sometimes weeks) after the day of missed AF. Do you have any symptoms?

I completely get the torture. I am on CD31 and also my second cycle ttc. I was due on today but could be anytime this week. Taken lots of tests and all BFN. Still holding out hope though as I had period pains earlier on today and normally when this happens I come on straight away but nothing...slightly sore boobs but this happens around AF so not sure what is going on but really praying for BFP soon, i can't take all this waiting and disappointment

Do you feel like testing again or are you going to wait? If you do test maybe get a first response early detection one? I should wait for AF but think i'll buy one today...I just want to know eitherway!

Good luck, FX for you xxx

@ashers89 everything you are saying sounds exactly the same as me I’ve had the cramps too for a few days when normally I come on straight away! Know exactly how you are feeling with the urge to test but also not wanting the disappointment! Maybe test first thing tomorrow? Let me know how it goes and I’ll keep you posted too. So nice to chat I feel like I’ve veen losing my mind! Good luck you too xxxx

Morning Topsy15 how are you today?

Unfortunately I am out this month AF came this morning...was literally just about to do a test as well. Just ordered all my ovulation tests, pre seed and a thermometer i am going to really try and track things properly this month as I feel like I may ovulate a lot later then I initially thought.

Hoping you are still in with a good chance of getting your BFP, keep me posted xx

Ah morning @ashers89, I am so sorry to hear! But at least you know for definite and can focus on next month. I feel like I’m clutching at straws and just want to move on as well. Funny how the hope shatters so quickly!
Finger crossed for you this month sounds like you are doing everything you can. I hadn’t heard of pre seed until then! I found evening primrose oil worked well too.

I still have no sign of AF but got slight cramps and my boobs feel heavy, I’m super emotional too so I expect it’s only a matter of time. Why are PMS and pregnancy symptoms so similar !

Stay in touch and I’ll keep you posted too, I’m gonna test again on Friday if I’ve not come on... xxx