2ww baby #2

[Kimbles18]

Hello ladies, my 2we has just started at due around the 15th anyone else? Second cycle for baby number 2.
My son is 3 and was conceived straight after coming off the pill so the whole "trying" for a baby is new to me! Haven't really got on with the ovulation tests never got a strong second line so presuming it passed before I tested! X

No that sounds like a weird evap line. Id try a different brand 😊 x

I'm waiting for my order of FRERs to arrive ordered 4 of them to have on hand but not going to test again until after 23rd as it feels like AF is coming don't know if its my mind playing tricks on me but it just feels imminent. Ive googled my CM and it said its a sign of pregnancy but i don't know

Hi girls, me and my partner (same sex) had our first ever AI on Friday the 14th from our gorgeous donor. Would this make make my partner (who is going to carry) 2dpo or 3dpo? This is our very first attempt, we only had one insemination. AF is due 27th, honoured to be on this TWW with you. Lots of love and hope to all of you.

Extra information: 32 year olds, my partner in previous relationships has conceived and miscarried x3 once with twins. Every month she has cramping on both ovaries and has quite moderate spotting around ovulation. Currently she is only taking pre-Natals and small dose aspirin we used some preseed during insem as she has never produced much CM. Due to her history of MC she is very superstitious about symptom spotting and getting ahead of ourselves. But I have to say either it's all psychological but she has had constant mild cramping since yesterday, no energy and fatigued, gassy and peeing no joke, every 15 to 20 minutes. I know it's waaaaay too early but it's nice to notice a few things out of the norm for her.

I'm out I think.
Just did another test and it was a BFN didn't expect to conceive first time with clomid as most don't but its still disappointing especially when i had all the signs and such bad nausea the past few days onto cycle 39 for us probably just going to ask to be put forward for IVF at this point.

@dosmummas welcome 👋 has your partner been experience any other symtoms.

It seems I’m also out this month, AF got me however this cycle is very light so might do another test in a week just for fun 😂🤪

I'm sorry @TTC73 wishing you lots of baby dust for next cycle! 

@Flossytots haha just for fun! Sorry AF got you!! Fingers crossed for next month!

Looks like I'm one of the last to be waiting for AF, tested negative on Sunday but was due AF today!

@dosmummas ooo exciting times, today (Wednesday) would be 5DPO :)

Hi @civic how have your been? any update, did you test again and what was the outcome? ✨✨✨

@Flossytots hi, sadly it didn't end well for me, 3 hours of passing clots over the weekend & horrific backpain & sickness landed me at the hospital. Awaiting scan today to check there's nothing else going on & then it's roll on October for us. Did you do another test for fun?

Oh my gosh @civic I’m so sorry to hear that. How did your scan go, hope you got the answers you needed. 🌸No my af came on and it was the worst one ever😭😭 the pain was so unreal and I was on co-codamol just to cope with it. I’m taking it easy this month, I’m not doing opk tests and dtd every other day or when we fancy it. Ttc was starting to get regimental so we are sort of trying without the added pressure of trying lol.

@Flossytots hello :)
Yes all good so again we are now in the TTW! My partner got really stressed about it this month I think he thinks it's all on him, which I'm not enjoying as it's month 2 & he's up the wall already & I can't understand why he is so stressed! although, work, holidays, Christmas events are currently on hold so maybe that's why! Hope all the ladies that got BFP last month are doing well!! :) and dust to everybody trying again this month!

Baby dust and good luck to you all still waiting for your Bfp!.

I'm almost 8 week now fingers crossed everything continues smoothly xx

Hi @civic and @kimbles I’m sorry I’ve been missing in action 😊 we are in the process of moving and you know how that can be.BFP is due in 2days so keeping fingers crossed 🤞😬we decided to take a different approach this cycle. It’s our 3rd cycle trying and I really worked myself up last month so I know where you DP is coming from @civic. You feel like you did everything possible in your power and then nothing...

I have been taking a positive approach this cycle no preconception multi vitamins just folic acid, no opk testing and no symptom spotting, I’ve simply pushed ttc at the back of my mind and we’ve just been dtd and having fun 😁

It’s worked in our favour because it didn’t feel regimented, I ovulate around the same time each month, give or take a day and I’m sure we covered those dates and I didn’t tell DH 😂🙈

@Kimbles how have you been holding up, any food aversions yet? @Civic when is your BFP due?✨✨✨✨✨✨

Hopefully this month will be your month!

I started off craving anything salty but past week I'm a bit off my food like unless I really fancy something particular I'm not interested. Unless it's something carby it makes me a little sickly.

Got my full booking in appointment next week so that's something to look forward to 😊 x

Hello ladies! 😊

Oh I feel your pain. We bought our first house in July, it took a longggg time for everything to be unpacked! Not in a rush to do it again for a while! I wish you lots of luck & happy memories in your new home!

Oooo how exciting! yes my DP ended up crying at one point this month! I hope it works for you as we are defiantly feeling the strain of regimental, it's just not fun and feels pressuring! I've got my fingers crossed for you!! AF is due in 2 days for me but I'm 99% sure it's not our month, I feel absolutely perfect & that's me out untill January if not! Only plus will be all the baileys I can drink at Christmas!! I'll have a glass for you both hopefully!!

You know what they say, third time lucky, let us know

@Kimbles18 glad your not suffering badly, I was awful with food early on with my first it was horrible! That's exciting!! Hope the week goes quick for you, won't be long before it will be scan time have you told any family/friends yet?

We've decided to keep it secret to most people this time, last time my partner told everyone within about 5 minutes of knowing and I found it quite over powering. My mum knows and a couple of friends guessed. We got married in July though so I think everyone is expecting it x

Morning @civic fingers crossed for you for tomorrow. I’m exactly in the same boat if we are out this month, then we are taking a break till Feb. We have a few trips arranged and would like to go all out 😂

@Kimbles I’m glad you are doing well, do you think you would like to find out what you are having or keeping it as a surprise?

Good morning @Flossytots 
Any news this morning? I've woken up with cramps so think this is probably me out this month!

@Kimbles18 I think the more people that know the longggger it seems too as everybody's asking you questions from 6 weeks etc, he must have been really happy & excited to tell everybody though which is nice! 

I really didn't want to do a test as seeing 'Not Pregnant' flash up makes me feel a whole lot crappier than AF arriving but partner gave the impression this morning & yesterday that he wanted me to POAS which I did, he's gutted & just gone back to bed (our day off today) & now I feel shit too. No more pregnancy tests for me!! That's me out untill January/February!

Enjoy yourself over the next couple of months! The time to wind down from baby making might do you both some good and fingers crossed for the new year

Yes we will definitely find out what we are having, we did last time also 😊

Hi ladies, @civic I’m sorry AF got you, sending you a virtual hug🤗

I’ve had rollercoaster of a day...took a first response with fmu and got a bfn, so spent the day rushing to the loolike a weirdo, just to keep checking. Long story short...no af...yet, no af like cramps just a few twinges here and there and some pinching. Sorry for the tmi but loads of cm, sore erect nipples all day, they are so sensitive and headaches 🤒

I don’t know what to make of this...will test again in a few days if it doesn’t show.

On the subject of CM, what colour is it? I am pretty adamant I'm not pregnant so much so I had a coffee this morning (caffeine free between CD14 & period) but yesterday in work I thought AF came, went to toilet and it was (sorry TMI) a bit of blob/streak of white in my knickers which I thought was odd. But today it's been very milky white pretty much all day which I haven't tracked but can't say I ever pay much attention unless it's around ovulation, my cramps went away this morning & haven't returned yet!

I'm crossing my fingers for you!!!

@Kimbles18 I'm hopping on a plane first day of half term with my DD if AF arrives for some mummy daughter time in Turkey!! (DP is working most of the week)

Oh sorry @civic for some reason I thought af had got you, we are in the same boat! My cm has been almost clear, like ewcm...just checked now and still nothing. The trip sounds lovely but really hoping you have a bun in the oven 😁✨✨✨✨✨

@Flossytots that's ok, I worded this morning as if I was out due to the cramps then Negative test so assumed AF would make her appearance shortly, but she hasn't yet! Ahh mine is milky white, I had a google but said it was normal just before AF although I haven't noticed it before. Haven't bought anymore tests so just waiting for AF, if she's not arrived Friday I will test again! Got my fingers crossed for you!!

I would absolutely love a holiday next week, 2016 - 2017 I went away 6 times including weekends in European cities but the last 18 months I've only been away 3 times :( obviously when pregnant & with small baby we won't go anywhere for ages! 

AF got me!

Immediately turns computer on & looks at holidays!