1 Miscarriage and 14 months of trying to concieve

[Mannall22]

So my husband and i started TTC June 2017 i then had a miscarriage November 2017 and still haven't managed to conceive now august 2018.

Although it hasn't been a year since the miscarriage we have still had 14months of our journey and its safe to say its really taking its toll on both my husband and I.

I have had all my bloods done and all fine and when i had my scan after miscarriage they said tubes etc all ok and i have regular period and ovulation. My husband has had hormones checked and sexual health check all fine and now waiting for a sperm test but the doctor has said as we conceived reasonably quickly before she would be shocked if a sperm problem which is reassuring.

Not sure why I'm writing on here but just feel at a total loss. Since TTC my three closest friends have got pregnant, my sister and my sister in law so i have no escape really tough i also hate being the person to look miserable when they are so happy!

Any tips on how to deal with it being all around you or what we can do to help speed up the process.

I get it. I started ttc March 2016. I had a chemical in July 16 and then again in March 17. Then nothing... tried clomid. We've just had our first round of (nhs) ivf which has been successful so far (I'm 11 weeks today). I had two close friends get pregnant around the time of each of my chemicals.

Infertility nearly killed me. We were unexplained...

I did find antidepressants and counselling a bit helpful. As was acupuncture...

The infertility board (as opposed to conception) has tonnes of ladies in a similar position to you. It's shit. Be kind to yourself. You aren't alone!!