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4 days late - too scared to test!!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 17:50

Hi All

I am literally a poas queen! Ttc no1 for about 2 years and nothing! Have been late a few times but not in a little while now. The problem is I now seem to have developed poas-phobia! I just feel different this time, like randomly feel this is the month of my bfp but can't shift the fear! Anyone else had this? Please help me get a grip haha!

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iggleypiggly · 15/08/2018 17:51

Have you got any spare tests?? The only way to find out...

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 17:53

Yeah I have a FRER and some boots cheapies, I'm thinking I should wait and use fmu tomorrow am. Im praying this month is my month!!

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cakesandphotos · 15/08/2018 17:56

Yep. I stopped poas after 6 months because it was crushing. I decided I would only test if I was definitely late. The month I got my bfp I just knew. If you’re late then at least you’ll get a definite answer!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 17:59

cakesandphotos yep! It sucks I hate waiting for that little line!! I'm going to save them and do it tomorrow I think. I have been late a few times before but this just feels different - no idea why!!

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iggleypiggly · 15/08/2018 18:00

The only month I didn’t want to test was the month I got my BFP! Good luck Flowers

cookielove · 15/08/2018 18:01

Test now!!!

DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:01

POAOvS first to get two lines and then try the FRER?!

It took me over 3yrs to fall pregnant first time so I feel your pain!

iggleypiggly · 15/08/2018 18:05

I’m secretly hoping you are currently POAS....Wink

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:09

Hehe no not poas yet, ahh I'm so nervous! I don't want to give up the dream!!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:09

Ah fuck it I'm going now, will be back in 3-5 minutes! X

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DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:13

Eeeek! Everything crossed as I reckon you’d be a due date buddy for me Grin

holycityzoo · 15/08/2018 18:14

Omg come on!!!!!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:16

Pretty sure that's a bfn :(

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DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:17

Can’t see a photo?

DartmoorDoughnut · 15/08/2018 18:18

Oh can see it now Sad

Try the FRER in the morning x

ThunderOnlyHappens · 15/08/2018 18:19

I would hold my pee for a good few hours and use the FRER. Good luck OP

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:19

Sorry pic

4 days late - too scared to test!!
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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:20

Yeah I think I will try the FRER in the am but not holding out too much hope now, I really thought this was the month! Oh well always next month!

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cookielove · 15/08/2018 18:21

You need a frer!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:21

Weird DartmoorDoughnut I couldn't see it either then posted another pic and they came up!

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:22

Tbf that was like my 3rd wee of the hour, maybe it was too dilute - desperately grasping at straws!

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moleeye · 15/08/2018 18:41

We have been TTC number 3 for over two years. I too stopped POAS because the disappointment was overwhelming.

Last month my period was late so I waited 3 days after it was due and tested. It was negative.

Still no sign of AF. 8 days after AF was due I tested again (first morning wee) and got a BFP. I'm now 7+6 and still in complete shock.

It may just be too soon, wait a couple days and use your first wee.

Good luck xx

moleeye · 15/08/2018 18:41

*TTC number 2! Not 3

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DayManChampionOfTheSun · 15/08/2018 18:47

Thank you moleeye I'm not even that upset, because I don't believe it! Which is so stupid and backward thinking but I just can't seem to shift this feeling. Probably setting myself up for a big fall

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iggleypiggly · 15/08/2018 19:24

Keep positive and try again in morning Flowers

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