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@Delilah7 @daisiesandpeonies @Crossfitgirl

@Delilah7 no way! I used to work in Newmarket and live the other side of it!

@MrsR16 how weird!!!

North Yorkshire

East Midlands over here! Although used to live in Peterborough @MrsR16 

@Delilah7 sending you a big hug lovely! Your AF is still isn't due so there is time! Like I said, I took a test the day before AF was due and it was BFN but then took one 2 days after and it was BFP. Don't be fooled by early tests, they don't work for everyone. Have you thought of trying out some counselling just to have someone to chat to?

@Chivari ah, see such a small world! 😂

@Chivari I spoke to a midwife today and that was lovely.... my AF is not supposed to be here for another 12 day's :/ which sucks x

@Chivari ooh whereabouts?! X

Guys. I'm seriously bloated and my tummy feels so weird :( it's even worse than the 2WW when I first started! 2WW after a miscarriage is AWFUL!!!!!!
My left side feels awfully tender!

@Delilah7 I read a thread today about women that got pregnant two weeks after a MC... do you think there's any chance you could be? Sorry if this is a long shot xx

@cupcakesandglitter oh wouldn't it be wonderful! but I doubt it... I wonder if my ovulation dates have been different to what I though. But we only started having sex again 4 day's after the bleeding stopped so I doubt I've caught it. I hope it's that but I doubt it. It was exactly two weeks yesterday since I started miscarrying x x

@Delilah7 you never know... until then though, treat it as if you don't know when you're ovulating and just DTD whenever you can this month? Xx

I’m from London-ish!

@sunshine1987 @Delilah7 my DH initiated last night too!! Totally out of the blue!! I think they can sense our conversations you know...!!

I'm really pleased after having a really open and honest convo with DH last night too. I told him I want a baby and I want to start trying properly i.e. sex all the time, and I want to know where he is at. He is happy either way and said he is happy to have more sex, I also told him I can't be the one initiating all the time. So guess what. He initiated! Woop!

Sorry, I started this reply aaaages ago, before my last post, but never got round to finishing it cos I've been busy all day at work, and I really can't keep up with the speed of the convo now!

Anyways after 4 cycles of "not trying, but not trying not to", I now feel really happy that we have finally agreed to start actively trying and I don't have to be sneaky any more!

Sorry just catching up

@Delilah7 💕 please keep your head up, your body is maybe just resetting itself or getting ready for the next bfp🤞

@CrystalBlaze @MrsM2017 how goes the not testing? Have they come out of the glove box yet? 😂

@ValidUser hope you are feeling better after UTI they are bloody horrible things

@daisiesandpeonies I'm Day 22- not idea wtf is going on so we can be a team!

Keeping 🤞 for everyone x

Do you mean where about in the east mids @cupcakesandglitter ? X

@Crossfitgirl that's great that you are on the same page! X

@Chivari yes!! X

@Crossfitgirl oh lovely! It's good you've had that chat, and that he's initiated... enjoy!! ;) xx

Yay that's fab @Crossfitgirl 😁

@ttcat32 still haven't tested yet! Not that I don't want to - I'm just so scared of getting a bfn...so instead I've sat here all evening googling "11 dpo" !!!! God help me!

@MrsM @ttcat I caved and tested this evening and bfn. 11dpo. Starting to lose hope a bit but thinking of the weird implantation type pains I got on Monday does keep me wondering. I absolutely have to hold off testing for a bit now though, it's ridiculous.

@Crossfitgirl yay! I think sometimes we forget that they just don't think the same way we do! On Monday I had to explain to DH but that by me initiating all the time it makes me feel like he doesn't want me, which looking back is why he initiated Wednesday but I feel better knowing it's not a 1 way thing

@daisiesandpeonies and @ttcat32 I'm day 23!

Your not out yet @CrystalBlaze - keeping everything crossed for you x

Nottingham @cupcakesandglitter what about you? Xx

You got any symptoms @MrsM? When's AF due for you?

@MrsM2017 sorry just butting in do you have any symptoms? Im 6dpo and earlier today has very light brown spotting then tonight was stringy af due in 10 days not sure if it's IB or early af