TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

@CookieWaffle I so sympathise with you darling but it'll be ok and if it's not it's not the end. ❤️ be positive. Just because mine ended that way does not mean yours will 😘

Lots to catch up on today! Congrats to @jjearrad looks positive to me!

@CookieWaffle I'm sorry to hear what you're going through, I hope everything turns out okay for you! Please keep us updated. 💜

Brought a digital and positive!!! Can't believe it. Good luck to all you ladies ttc ❤

@jjearrad TOLD YOU!!! Congratulations darling 😍

Sending massive hugs @CookieWaffle. Did they test you while you were at the doctors? If not, we have to assume it's because they don't think the risk is that great. I have sleuthing grossed for you.
(And sorry, my phone clearly wasn't updating properly when I posted earlier.)

Congratulations @jjearrad!

I'm so glad they were helpful @Delilah7.

@ChaosMoon thanks Hun.
Feeling abit low now though x

Oh no, sorry to hear that @Delilah7. Are you worrying over this cycle or is it a bit of everything? Or something else?

@ChaosMoon just hoping i could fall this month but think I'm defo not going to... 😔 it all just sinks in. Got a email from mothercare sayingcongrratulations your 7 weeks today! :(

Congratulations @jjearrad! Xx

@ChaosMoon no they didn't test, I have to test next friday. I'm wondering whether to pop to asda now and get a test. I think it's over tho. Doc asked me to tell her and she'll refer me for more options due to my age and having 2 miscarriages in 2 months. She did say well at least the sperm and eggs are working!

@Delilah7 don't worry about what you don't know. You did it within your fertile window, there's nothing to suggest it won't happen.

@CookieWaffle keep positive Hun, until it happens it's not over 😘thank you xxx

@Cookie I'm so sorry you're having to go through this stress. Got everything crossed for you x

Guys. I'm seriously bloated and my tummy feels so weird :( it's even worse than the 2WW when I first started! 2WW after a miscarriage is AWFUL!!!!!!
My left side feels awfully tender!

@Delilah7, I know it's no consolation at all but your body has been through a lot this past month. If it feels wrong though, give your doc a ring to be on the safe side.x

Good morning ladies ☀

How're you both doing @Delilah7 and @CookieWaffle?

Have you caved yet and tested @CrystalBlaze?! 🤞

@BambiOnIce80 I just have no idea what's going on with my bod! driving me insane.

I'm ok this morning. My tummy still feels a little weird. How are you x

I'm very glad it's Friday @Delilah7! 5dpo today, so I know my inner symptom spotting psycho is very ready to come out and drive me crazy 🤪 It's starting already! 😞 Tiny little weird tightening in my lower abdomen this morning and inner symptom spotting psycho (let's just call her SSP 😉) is like "ooooh, maybe..." No! Stop it! I'm not ready for a week of driving myself nuts 😒

Hey @BambiOnIce80, I'm not really ok, gonna take today off work to chill. DP and i had a long talk yesterday and we've got an action plan (I love a good action plan) about things we need to do, TTC related and not. Gives us a bit of focus.

I think you need to find some distractions this week to combat SSP Netflix is good!

@Cookie sending love to you.

@Bambi I had bfn yesterday at 11dpo so starting to lose hope a bit. AF due today so we'll see.

Hope everyone else is okay.

@CookieWaffle we are here honey. I know how hard it is to think positive but an action plan will help you. No doubt! 😘

@BambiOnIce80 😂😂😂 crazy's been let out.
Trying to look back at my period calendar before I found out I was pregnant. By that I should be due 21st August so I think I've completely missed ovulation and these pains are period pains :( if I take my miscarriage as a period it brings me to the 28th and my ovulation dates would be spot on!

I'm glad you have a plan @CookieWaffle, and that you're taking some time for yourself today. I hope you have something to focus on to keep from driving yourself crazy with it all though.

I like SSP @BambiOnIce80. 😂 Can we get MN to add it to the acronym list?

Big hugs for everyone in the 2ww and dressing AF.

@CookieWaffle, I can only imagine the level of not OK you are right now 😔 You sound like me with your action plan - I love a good action plan 😍 Helps me cope with difficult things; hope for the best but plan for the worst is one of my favourite sayings. I've already got mine lined up for cycle 5 if/when AF rocks up next weekend!

Fingers-crossed @CrystalBlaze that AF stays away and maybe you got a false BFN yesterday 🤞 I was reading an article yesterday about the accuracy of FRER's and it's basically hypervariable about when they are accurate because it totally depends on your cycle length and how long your luteal phase is. It ended up basically saying don't bother putting yourself through the heartache of getting a false BFN and wait until AF is at least a day late before POAS. I'll see if I can find the link again and post it 👍

@Delilah7 it sounds like it's really hard to judge your cycle this time with what you've been through 😔 Try and kick SSP to the curb and come up with your action plan for next month so that if AF does arrive, you've got your eye on the prize for next cycle 😉

@ChaosMoon we absolutely should! 😂 I wonder who you get an abbreviation on there 🤔 Maybe we just have to use it enough so that they have to 😁

Here's that link about how long your cycle is, what your luteal phase is and how accurate a FRER would be:

www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/lutealphase

😭 I'm in abit of a state. I'm in quite abit of pain in my tummy even when I walk on my right hand side. The nurse wasn't very helpful when I rang she just said it could be my period. I've had bad period pains and this is all in my lower back and lower right hand side. I'm really fed up this month of everything 😭😭