TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

@BambiOnIce80 2WW buddies 😍 I'm just concerned I ovulated earlier and then missed it as since my miscarriage I've DTD 3 times in my fertile window according to flo app. 😔

@Delilah7 you've given it your best shot. Try not to over think it and if it happens this time then amazing 🎉💐❤️ If it doesn't, then your body maybe needed a little more time and you'll have an excellent chance in the next cycle 🤞🍀 I know it's really difficult to not worry about it, but try and relax.x

@BambiOnIce80 I'm trying to stay positive. It's defo hard after a miscarriage but I guess in another way I'm more relaxed too... xx

@Delilah7 my hubs was talking to his bestie about ours this month, and she told him that with pretty much all 5 of her pregnancies she MC one month and fell on the next. It's just that if one group of cells isn't compatible then your body rejects it. I guess the cells then change to be compatible. The body is amazing so don't worry about it.

@BabySquid thank you ❤️

Hey @CrystalBlaze I'm doing OK, just hot and tired and trying to find focus at work is proving tricky. Had a bit of blood this morning so internally freaking out a little. How are you?

@CookieWaffle try not to panic darling. Can be normal ❤️

Fine thanks @Cookie, just impatient to get to the end of TWW. As @Delilah7 says try not to worry, its very common. Can you maybe call your GP for a bit of reassurance?

@CrystalBlaze @CookieWaffle as @CrystalBlaze said call your GP or the midwife number. That's what I did and they were very helpful honey xx

Thanks :) I will see how it goes, I've not registered yet with a midwife, haven't been able to pick up the form yet and I'd have to wait til tomorrow to get to speak to a doc. No strong pains or anything just a dodgy tummy. They do anything to stop you getting help from the docs here...

@Delilah7 Yes. I think you're in with a chance. But if it doesn't happen this month, it just means you're body has longer to settle into its rhythm so you can be ready for your baby when it happens. That's no bad thing.

Good lord @BambiOnIce80, don't look I'm urban dictionary. It's probably something filthy! 😂

@CookieWaffle play the system. It's almost certainly nothing but it's still worth checking out. If you tell your GP you're worried, they'll send you for a scan. And then you won't be waiting 10 weeks to talk to someone.

@CrystalBlaze I'm good thanks. Nauseous, but not actually being sick, so I can't complain. I just need to find a way to concentrate at work now. How long until AF is due for you?

@ChaosMoon I just need to not get my hopes up this month... I've been through a lot these last two weeks. How're you??

@Chaos that's good to hear. Puking is one of my biggest fears about being pregnant so hopefully I'll be able to avoid it.

It's two days till AF is due according to Flo. But I suspect it might be slightly longer. Going to try and hold off testing till at least Friday.

You really have @Delilah7. Have you come across Tommy's? I've been obsessing over their site because they do Excellent pregnancy information. It's got Information Standard, which means it's guaranteed to be accurate and actually based science. Which is actually quite rare when it comes to pregnancy information. But it's actually a research charity looking at mc, ep and premature births. They have midwives you can talk to on the phone and lots of helpful information. It may be worth checking them out.

That's a good move if you can @CrystalBlaze. And not long now. Crossing everything for you!

@ChaosMoon thank you Hun!! I'll give it a look!! ❤️ I'll let you know xx

Thanks ladies, tmi but I had a pink wipe this morn then little brown wipes through the day, nothing heavy and pretty much sounds like implantation on most websites I read. Will see how it is tomorrow. I'm still feeling like a human, half asleep, hot water bottle and as I just got home, now with added nausea.

I'm still feeling so unaccepting of this whole thing. I'm carrying around my mooncup like the floodgates are going to open and AF turns up with a big HI THERE. I've picked up the midwife form but so not ready to fill it in yet. I'm even considering buying some more tests... This is almost as bad as the tww...

@CookieWaffle all I would say is, my midwives I spoke to and my doctors were amazing... so it does help to have them on hand. Keep positive darling. Accepting something you've wanted for so long is very hard but it'll get real soon ❤️

Thanks @Delilah7 I think it's more that I really don't feel pregnant. It's like I'm getting over a cold and feeling a bit feverish or just eaten something dodgy. This is why I'm not religious, I won't believe something until I actually see proof

@CookieWaffle of course, I understand that. Just don't rule it out hun they can help ❤️❤️

ChaosMoon CookieWaffle how far along are you guys now?
Woo static smiley this morning 😁 at cd 18 that will be a slightly earlier ov than the last few months

@RanchoRelaxo GO GO GO 👌🏼😂

I know this isn't a sign of what to come I just want your guys input.

I only have ovulation pains before I ovulate. I've never had cramps after... now I'm 2dpo and cramping. I've got no signs of CM anymore so I know it's not that. Just wondered if any of you guys have had this?

Ladies I am only 9dpo but couldn't hold off testing, I was desperate for a wee at 5.30 this morning so did a frer, was certain it was going to be negative and after only about a minute I decided it was and put it in the bathroom draw and went back to bed. Got up at 6.30 and went to throw it away but when I looked there is the faintest line ever, is it likely to be an evap?
I know im going to have to wait until tomorrow morning to try again but im going to drive myself mad!

Oooh @RanchoRelaxo!! Happy DTD-ing! 😈 I'm getting serious OPK envy of your shiny, user friendly Clearview! Puts my little one steps to shame 😏

@Delilah7 I've had weird cramps 1 & 2dpo this cycle, but I've convinced myself that I'm just being hypersensitive to literally any twinge in the TWW. Also wondered if it's because DP and I have DTD way more than is normal for us and it's just my lady parts settling down after all the action they've been seeing 😂 It's all settled down now though 👍 How're you doing this morning?

Delilah7 are you sure you ovulated 2 days ago? I can't remember seeing if you used opks or anything, if not then maybe you are just ovulating late this month after the mc? Even without the cm it's possible
Penny04 it could be.. problem is tests should be discarded after 10 mins because of the risk of evap lines.. did it have any colour to it? Fingers crossed for tomorrow morning