TTC First Baby. Anyone else?! New Post

[Delilah7]

Hi ladies. We reached the max posts!! @BambiOnIce80 I'm feeling ok, just feel abit silly. My flo app says I'm due tomorrow but I am always 28 days and always have cramps which I don't have yet. How about you xx

Hiya, joining in! Tentatively started trying this cycle, but I hadn't been charting and was only returning from a trip the day I probably ovulated so knew the chances were slim. Period started today! Will be charting / temping properly from now on, and I think we'll be having a dirty weekend away just before I ovulate, so that'll be extra fun ;-) Anyway, there's a bit of TMI to brighten your day!

Ladies give me strength!!!! My sister and me just had a full blown argument. She doesn't see what she done wrong not asking how I was for a few days or being there. She's saying I'm making her look and feel bad for no reason. Arghhhh

@Delilah7 did you tell your sister? If so then she should defo have been asking after you before now. Or at least I would if I had a sister in your boat.
On a bum note... I still can't decide what's happening with me and AF... she's not fully here but this spotting is more red than yesterday but still not like she's fully here... and I NEVER get this!! AF is always either in full swing or just nothing at all! This is so frustrating and it's getting me all emotional.

@Bettyhop, I can see your control line good and clear, but not much else - maybe try the inversion trick on your photo editor to show us if you think there's a faint line there?

@catlady3 welcome 👋 We're pretty used to TMI on here (and lucky you for the dirty weekend 😉).

@Delilah7, sorry to hear your sister's still being a bee-atch 😔 You'll have to tell her that a good number of strangers think she's behaving badly too (or maybe don't if you want to stop fighting!).

@BambiOnIce80 @BabySquid thanks guys. I told her because I was gonna miss my nephews birthday party due to the miscarriage. And she hasn't been supportive at all. Said she had a miscarriage , when she said he took tests they were negative but she just knew.

@BabySquid when are you testing did you say???

@BabySquid, I know you said you didn't want to test until the weekend, but maybe reconsider if it's driving you crazy. Another day and a half is a very long time to wait in TWW terms - take this from a hopeless symptom spotter like myself!

@Delilah7, in my experience if you get a BFN and then you get your AF, then that's not a miscarriage - that's just someone not being pregnant and getting AF. Do you think your sister is maybe trying one-upmanship on you?

@BambiOnIce80 my point exactly darling. Totally. She wanted he limelight of a miscarriage. Have it. I don't bloody want it!

@Delilah7, that's definitely the kind of limelight that we can all do with out. Try not to let her get to you. Try to focus on yourself and let her get on with it.

@BambiOnIce80 I've said to her if it's not to do with the kids I don't want to know. I can't have that negativity around me anymore. She's so jealous of everything for no reason!

Hi! I'm TTC naturally by making adjustments to diet, health and taking some Indian herbs to help. I was diagnosed with PCOS a few months back. I tried Clomid on my own for three months but didnt work. It made me gain a lot of weight wont go back to it now. This whole proess is making me so depressed esp as all my girl friends are getting pregnant and I;m the only one left.

Positive thinking and focusing on your future all the way @Delilah7 💖

When I hear about things like what you're going through, it makes me kind of thankful for being an only child! You can certainly choose your friend's, but not your family.x

@BambiOnIce80 my OH is an only child and it is easier but she's a middle child so that's why.

@shressy be strong it'll happen. We are here if you need us ❤️ can understand how stressful it is x

Thanks @Delilah7. Was reading the rest of the thread as well. Sorry that you're sister isn't being nice and supportive when you need her most. Like you said we are all here for you

@shressy thanks Hun, it can't be helped. She's just a bitch. 😂

Just catching up on the events of the day. I'm sorry about your sister being like that @Delilah7, it can't be nice to deal with but we're all here for you :)
My thermometer arrived a day early so I can start temping from tomorrow! I know I'm mid way through a cycle but it's more just to get used to doing it daily!
How's everyone else doing today?

@BambiOnIce80 @Delilah7 I may not need to test. Getting more and more red spotting so I think AF is here and just being a real pain!

Oh no @BabySquid! 😞 The TWW doesn't half mess with us, doesn't it?! 😔 I've never been so sure I was pregnant as last month because I was feeling queasy and hypersensitive to smells the day before AF was due, but she turned up the next day, regular as clock work 🙄 Sending you much love.x

@purplestar9 get testing!! 😍 fun and games start now!

@BabySquid oh no :( fingers crossed we are wrong!

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Amazing news cookiewaffle! Congratulations xx

Yay CookieWaffle congratulations you must be over the moon !

Congratulations @CookieWaffle I'm glad one of us got that BFP! Xx

@CookieWaffle I told you!!!!! Congratulations darling 😍😍😍

Fantastic news to wake up to! Congratulations @CookieWaffle :)

That's fabulous news to start the day with @CookieWaffle! Congratulations!! 🎊 🎉💐💖