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12 Days Late - No AF - BFN!

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panem · 03/07/2018 19:46

I am probably being overly sensitive, but I am after some advice.
As per the title, I am 12 days late, no sign of AF. Me and my partner are not TTC, however like my DD - if it happens, it happens. We did participate in copulation around ovulation day (which was 05.06.2018).
So I am usually like clockwork, re AF. 12 days late is a big deal for me. I took a CBD today and it was a BFN! I might just add, I may be addicted to POAS - I must have used 30 HPT at this point!

I am feeling nauseous, my breasts are sore, and I have this awful bloating and pain in my lower abdomen. I am also quite dizzy, tired and peeing like a trooper. It may be in my head, but how can I not be pg??
Has anyone else still had BFN's 12 days late?
I was due on 22.06.2018, no sign of AF before now, and it doesn't feel like it's going to happen. Am I going crazy?

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Letsdothis42 · 04/07/2018 01:05

Hi Panem,

Same here was due on 20/06/2018 and am now 15 days late with a BFN, think im going crazy too, we are actively trying, strict 28 day cycle never been a day late before, booking in with GP this week if I get an appt, I have been on other threads where some same the HCG levels in urine may be low to detect a result. I have felt like I am having a ghost period, all the cramps pains and I should be ovulating around now and have all the symptoms but have no idea whether to DTD or not, feel like my head is about to burst!

Angelmiracle · 04/07/2018 02:36

This happened me in December last year and March this year turned out to be 42 and a 49 day cycle. (Usual 30 day cycles).AF soon appeared. I personally wouldn't be confident of a bfp. Gynae said must've been an anovulatory cycle x

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panem · 14/07/2018 23:15

I am now 24 days late, still no sign (and symptoms are getting stronger.
Still only getting BFN's.

I am actively seeking out forums where a positive has been the end result (so I am very literally going crazy!!)
Going to book appt if I AF doesn't visit by 20.07.2018 :)

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Angelmiracle · 14/07/2018 23:31

So I was chatting with my mum's friend last night. Her daughter hadn't had her period since January had done a zillion hpts - all negative!!! Even GP confirmed negative with urine told her she wasn't preg were suspecting she had pcos but blood test finally confirmed she was pregnant! Due December. It happens!!

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panem · 18/07/2018 15:30

Still no AF, 27 days late and no BFPs. Going to drs in the morning to see what's going on! :(

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scarlettrouge · 18/07/2018 20:20

I’m not sure on my dates but I’m sure I’m 7 days overdue af

I had coil out during af on 14th June and dtd plenty, still bfn.

So fustrating isn’t it! Good luck with docs

scarlettrouge · 18/07/2018 20:22

In my desperation for a bfp I tried a inverted pic! But it’s so negative Sad

12 Days Late - No AF - BFN!
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panem · 18/07/2018 20:51

It really does make you crazy, doesn't it? I remember being 7 days late thinking AF would be coming soon, but it hasn't! I will update when I know anything just in case anyone else is going through this too

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Shannx · 18/07/2018 22:29

Oops i just posted the same thread. 9 days late and bfns! Must be something in the air atm. Fingers crossed for us all xx

scarlettrouge · 19/07/2018 04:43

good luck today. im not going to test this morning, as on night shifts. going to try to wait til saturday now Shock

ThriftyMcThrifty · 19/07/2018 04:49

Please update us after the doctor. I’m a week late - starting to wonder if I bought a dud bunch of pregnancy strips from amazon! Never been a day late apart from pregnancy before.

scarlettrouge · 19/07/2018 05:18

i bought the same! there must be something wrong with them (but also a bit scared about wasting money on a frer when i should just be patient and wait!)

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panem · 19/07/2018 10:43

So I went to the drs this morning, she has said that I am probably pregnant, it just doesn't always show on the tests (obviously everyone is different so don't let this stop you from visiting your gp) so I've been told to get straight on the pregnancy vitamins and I have provided a sample for the labs to analyse. If that comes back neg, then I'll have to go for a blood test. I'll keep you posted!

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angel0071987 · 19/07/2018 11:03

They surely should have given you a blood test in the first place. That's what mine did with my first.

scarlettrouge · 19/07/2018 13:04

Well that’s good news! I like he sound of that, good luck!

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panem · 20/07/2018 12:52

Bad news guys - AF has come today (very light, mind) but it's exactly when it would normally come (even though I missed last month). Real sad!
It's ridiculous how upset I am about something that was never true. Oh well, maybe next month!

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angel0071987 · 20/07/2018 13:49

You sure it's AF and not breakthrough bleeding? Did you get bloods done?

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