Nutty TTCers thread #3!

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Here's to a positive summer for us all!

@thisisouryrfx18 me too. It's totally consumed everything I do. I think about all the time.. and every month I get disappointed.

Well good luck ladies, hope you get your BFP's soon.

@cmdoran1991 how are you getting on? Has AF arrived yet?

No, sadly not. Wish she would hurry up. Have the worst cramps ever and just feel so annoyed and emotional today.

Anyone ever felt like giving up ttc? :(

I feel like giving up every month when AF arrives and then I have hope by the time I get to the tww and then during the tww get really fed up of waiting.. it's quite a rollercoaster for me

Yeah I'm feeling like it now. No motivation whatsoever, going to eat a tub of cookie dough ice cream and watch a sad movie. Any recommendations? Lol x

@MrsV2018 i 110% relate to the whole rollcoaster thing i tell myself every mnth thats it im not getting my hopes up but i do it to maself everytime! Why do we torture ourselves?! @cmdoran1991 ice cream sounds like a plan a dnt know about sad movies tho im trying to avoid them lol whens ur hubby back?

It'll always be when we least expect it. Anyone noticed when you're really stressed about it that's when you hear the word 'pregnant' 200x a day?! And he's back in 3 days but it feels way longer

@cmdoran1991 yes definitely feels like everyone else is getting pregnant and having babies so easily
Feels like we all are quite fed up with this whole ttc business

My two best friends just posted at the exact same time their scan pics and announcements... happy for them but a little jealous/sad..is that selfish? :/

@cmdoran1991 and @MrsV2018 i think we re entitled to feel pissed off bottom line is if the tables were turned theyd feel the same

@thisisouryrfx18 I feel less bad now.

Anyone else have a full day of twitchy dull af cramp/twinge on their right side? Somethings telling me it's a cyst.

Sorry I keep rambling on btw mind has been in over drive with ttc. So I appreciate you ladies for putting up with it x

@cmdoran1991 no you don't sound selfish at all.. completely feel the same anytime I hear pregnancy news.. it's been a long journey and just feel like it won't happen

I'm 11dpo and did a test this morning... surprise surprise got a BFN!!!!!

Don't know how much longer I can go through this

Still no AF, BFN.

Feel ya there :(

@MrsV2018 its soo tough isnt it?! Hang in there x ive not been charting my temps and ive been forgetting to take my vits we re still trying and i ll dtd as much as we can in my fw but i feel the same how much more are we meant to take its soo unfair! @cmdoran1991 u said ur goin to the docs arent u? I think its the best thing especially with ur af being soo late. We just need to try and support one another ladies x

Hopefully we're in next month. OH came back last night and we agreed to wait for a bit. 57 days from last AF is not healthy. But definitely appreciating the support, hope you're both okay.

Yep just need to support each other but it's hard when you see people get pregnant and they say it happened the first month of trying.. and then when I speak to them they just don't understand where I'm coming from and say it will happen. They don't know that

@MrsV2018 i know hun i wish i could say sumthing to make u feel better all i can say is i totally get it x did u say ud been for tests etc? Im just expecting the gynaeo to tel me we need ivf for one thing or another im just trying to prepare for it, then if we dnt need it its a relief..my heads all over the place with this crap! ❤

@thisisouryrfx18 we've only been for blood tests and apart from low vitamin D they said it was all ok. Spoke to OH about going back to docs and he has agreed but just really scared about it

@MrsV2018 its defo scarey my OH was dreading it. But i feel as if the only gd thing about gettin tests done is in a small ur taking the control back. If i get told everythings fine at the gynaeo i think im goin to look into a private scan i know somethings up and i want to get to the bottom of it! I dnt care what anyone says when we ve been ttc for this long clearly somethings up and i want it fixed xx i would defo get him a SA

@MrsV2018 dnt take this the wrong way but u should go on some of the infertility threads(not saying we are) but there are loads of ppl in our postion, just starting investigations and they give great advice x

@thisisouryrfx18 oh ok. I might have a look at the infertility threads then but it's just that word doesn't sound too nice. How are you anyway?

@MrsV2018 i know its a depressing thought but its not like what ud think as i said theres loads of ppl on there diagnosed with problems that can b corrected with meds etc and ppl like us still trying to figure out why it hasnt happened yet. Not too great i thought going out for lunch and having a couple of drinks would cheer me up but now im back in the house feel like im on a downer..roll on nxt wk its my fertile wk might help me feel like im being proactive. How are u? R u testing again tomorrow? X

@thisisouryrfx18 best of luck next week.. no I don't think I'm going to test now. Don't think there's any point. I'm due AF on Thursday so I might wait until Friday now. I don't actually think I am pregnant. I'm sorry you're on a downer. Bet I'm not helping you feel any better.. sorry about that