For those who are recently preg after mc's

[Emmafh3]

On my 3rd pregnancy after two mc's.
Hadn't expected to be preg at all this month as I'd only just miscarried. But tests don't lie multiple times right? Only just found out and not telling the hubby yet, takes his toll on him too!
Terrified, anxious, excited, every feeling ever...
Anybody else recent preg after a miscarriage and want to share their fears, or just chat because they don't know who else to turn to that has gone through the same?

8+3 after mc in Feb. Still terrified. Had an early scan, saw a heartbeat. Still terrified. I can't get excited and it's killing me because I so desperately want to be as it's my first and we've been trying for so long. I'm telling myself at 12 weeks I'll be much more reassured but honestly I don't know /:

I found that when I had the constant reassurance of the babe moving (dd had some issues in early pregnancy after a single mc) the constant panic was lost. I'm sure you'll find your peace too. And if you don't, it won't matter when your babe is here.
How's your other half feel about it all?

He's a very calm, level headed person anyway (annoying sometimes when I'm wound up lol) so he's all "take it one day at a time, focus on the fact that You've still strong symptoms, no bleeding etc and just take it as it comes and be thankful each day. It's a rational response I guess

Hi @Emmafh3
Firstly sorry for your losses
I don’t have any advice as I am not yet pregnant after my 2 early losses this year but just wanted to say congratulations and try and stay positive!
Reading your post actually gave me hope so thank you for sharing.
Best of luck to you X

One day at a time is still hard though!
I'm trying not to think about it all too much. Limiting myself to peeing on sticks.... 😉

You'll get there @ells0204! They say the percentage of carrying to term is still on our side at 2 consecutive mc's so fingers crossed!

It is easier said than done. Best wishes for you both x