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TTC with a child running about

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1987Laura · 23/06/2018 10:05

Hey so my and my man are TTC after losing our baby on new year's eve. He work away for a while and when he comes back we have his little girl which is hard when shes running about and we need to have sex! She was playing in her room for ages last night and hadn't came out for about an hour, so we went to our room for a quickie and she walked in. Its like shes psychic! What can we do to get our quckies in. Im in my high chance few days just now

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Yakadee · 23/06/2018 11:32

Could you wait until she's asleep? I imagine it's going to be tricky otherwise? X

Chel1888 · 23/06/2018 11:49

We dtd when the children are asleep?

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1987Laura · 23/06/2018 12:31

My man isnt a night person haha

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Peripeteia · 23/06/2018 12:35

Early morning before she wakes up?

Lilly1207 · 23/06/2018 12:48

He's going to have to be a night person 😂 he'll have to be when you have a baby! Xx

lostfrequencies · 23/06/2018 12:50

Yeah uh other than waiting til she's asleep I don't think there are many other options really? But I'm sure you know this?

Kittykat93 · 23/06/2018 12:51

Doesn't matter if he's a night person or not, if there's a small child around you're going to have to wait till she's asleep, so either after bedtime or during nap time.

ItsLikeRainOnYourWeddingDay · 23/06/2018 12:56

He sounds like a right catch. Your going to be doing all the night stuff I hope you know if you do have a baby.

Chel1888 · 23/06/2018 13:04

If he wants a baby with you he's going to have to be a night person and dtd when she's asleep. Not very fair to be constantly trying to get little one out of the way to have sex? Plus he's going to have to help you in the night with a newborn also so he will have to get used to it. Does he know you're trying for a baby??

PatriciaHolm · 23/06/2018 13:08

Surely this isn't a new problem?

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1987Laura · 23/06/2018 13:23

Yeah of course he knows we are trying. When we fell pregnant before we weren't actively trying. I.e. checking ovulation dates etc. It just happened a year after coming off the pill. Got our girl's post mortem results in march so been actively trying since then. Its obv bot a new thing it only just came to light as we tried a sneaky one last light and got caught. He doesnt last long anyway so figured she wouldnt have noticed we had moved to the bedroom lol

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SoyDora · 23/06/2018 13:25

It’ll have to be at night or early in the morning. I have a 4 and a nearly 3 year old and am pregnant with my third so it’s not impossible!

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