Last month period 4 days late, this month no AF?!

[4thmaybe]

Hi all! My hub got a vasectomy 4 years ago after our last child. Since then we’ve never used any form of birth control. Well last month AF came 4 days later than what my usual cycle is. It’s never been off more than a day or two max. Basically 28-30 day cycle. Date of last AF was April 25-May1st. As of right now I’m at cycle day 41 and still no AF. I’ve never missed a month but when I was pregnant. I took a test yesterday afternoon, BFN. I figure I’ll wait till Friday and take another one in the morning, but I wanted to hear some advice from you guys here.
I had my doc run blood work for thyroid issues to rule that out (family history). All that came back normal. This was last week. At the time I didn’t think anything of possible pregnancy....but it seems I keep finding women that have gotten pregnant after their guy got a vasectomy!
I’ve not been under any weird stress or illness either.

Forgot to add that yesterday evening I wiped after bathroom and was a little pink on the paper. Since then, absolutely nothing. I have an appt with my ob/gyn July 19th, the earliest they could get me in....

Symptoms, sore breasts the past several weeks, some mild cramping here and there, tired, moody.

What age are you? Could it be early menopause? Have you been stressed out lately?

No stress, everything’s been the same. I’m 30.

I wondered if maybe perimenopause, my mom thinks I’m too young for that, but that’s what made me make an appt with my ob/gyn to get tested and see if maybe that’s the case.

I have been having some nausea. I love my coffee everyday, and lately it’s been making me feel sick the minute I try to drink some.

Might be irrelevant but I’m an avid coffee drinker. Every morning. TOday, I go to drink, and I about threw up. Same stuff we always have.

@4thmaybe without alarming you I'm pregnant with number 2 at the minute and all your symptoms are like mine, especially not being able to drink coffee!

I’m feeling more and more that way.... we certainly weren’t TTC, he afterall did have a vasectomy lol, but I’m not gonna lie, I would be excited if it turns out I am! I know it’s a very small chance but certainly not impossible!