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Got my BFP!

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 01/06/2018 08:05

Sorry just really had to post as can't tell anyone in RL yet!

Had my coil out last May, ruptured ectopic with loss of tube last September, chemical in March, and I was beginning to lose hope.

CD26 do not even due AF yet, let's hope this one sticks.

Got my BFP!
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KimRobs87 · 01/06/2018 08:06

Congratulations!!!! X xxx

sandgrown · 01/06/2018 08:09

Congratulations x

Emelene · 01/06/2018 08:13

That's wonderful, congratulations! All the best going forward. Smile

Pudding01 · 01/06/2018 08:17

Aww congratulations! Smile x

Eeeeek2 · 01/06/2018 08:35

Congratulations

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 01/06/2018 09:04

Thank you everyone

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sexnotgender · 01/06/2018 09:10

Congratulations!!!

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 02/06/2018 05:36

Very faint line today compared to yesterday's strong one. Really hoping this is not another chemical. 😕

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SanJunipero · 02/06/2018 06:16

A fainter line doesn't necessarily mean that things are going wrong. Funnily enough, I also had an ectopic and a chemical before I got my BFP. The first test I did had a decent line, but it was fainter when I tested again the next day; I remember crying and feeling so sad that it was all over... My baby's 9 weeks old now, so the fainter line clearly didn't mean anything. It could just be that your urine's more dilated than yesterday's. Good luck Thanks

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 02/06/2018 06:21

It's very faint though. If I hadn't had got the positive yesterday I would have interpreted it as a negative. Plus this is exactly what happened last time with my chemical. I don't have high hopes. 😕

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Wellthisunexpected · 02/06/2018 09:20

If it's any consolation @randomuntrainedcuntowner with my miscarriage my tests were really clear, with this pregnancy and with DS they were faint for ages.

FingersXssd83 · 03/06/2018 14:35

Sounds like you have had a rough time of it @randomuntrainedcuntowner, big congrats 💖 xxx

StargazyDrifter · 03/06/2018 15:42

Great to hear, congrats! I had a chemical last month and am now 4w3d. Perhaps there's something of a pattern here.

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 04/06/2018 09:42

Can't test yet this morning as stayed at my mum and dad's and am still here. No sign of AF yet and the evil witch usually arrives first thing! Determined not to spend any more money on Frers so I'll just do a cheapie when I get home and see what that says...

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SanJunipero · 04/06/2018 10:22

Keeping everything crossed for you x

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 04/06/2018 10:36

Still no period but negative cheapy test. It's not looking good. 😕

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 04/06/2018 14:38

Got my period. 😕

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Wellthisunexpected · 04/06/2018 15:51

Oh random sorry to hear that.

Prembabymum · 04/06/2018 15:52

Im so sorry OP; that must be really tough. X

SanJunipero · 04/06/2018 16:46

I'm so sorry xx

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randomuntrainedcuntowner · 04/06/2018 20:02

Thanks everyone. I'm a fucking mess tbh and quite embarrassed about what a state I'm in over something do trivial. Worst thing is that my dp is working in France and was supposed to be back tomorrow but has been delayed indefinitely. And he seems like he couldn't give two shits, so I'm dealing with this on my own. X

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KimRobs87 · 04/06/2018 20:16

@randomuntrainedcuntowner - so sorry for you op. Doesn't help that you don't feel supported when you really need it. We're here for you xx

SanJunipero · 04/06/2018 20:45

It's not trivial at all - it's devastating and unfair, and utterly exhausting. We're here if you want to talk xx

CrossedToTheDarkSide · 04/06/2018 20:55

So sorry to hear this OP! We’re here if you need to chat. Definitely not trivial at all. I’ve never been in your situation as only just starting my TTC journey but I admire your honesty and bravery so much! Stay strong. Flowers

qumquat · 04/06/2018 21:13

Oh random I saw your posts on the low carb threads. I'm so sorry. It's not trivial at all it's devastating. Flowers

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