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Am I out again ? Help !

21 replies

bleu18 · 30/05/2018 05:40

Hi everyone ! If anyone could please give me an insight. I’d be very thankful.

So on CD 30 today. I am usually a 26-28 day girl, last month though I was on 31.
I only got ‘busy’ this month, and for the past week I have been having mild cramps, and tender breasts.
I can see a faint line, but I have been on this road before, and it sucks getting your hopes up for nothing.

Thanks to everyone who will reply. ❤️

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Lmj25 · 30/05/2018 05:56

I can see a line x

KimRobs87 · 30/05/2018 06:01

I can see a line! Xx

IHateToCashew · 30/05/2018 06:07

Could see it without even opening the photos Smile

Have you got a second one you could take first thing this morning?

bleu18 · 30/05/2018 06:09

Thank you for the reply, Lmj25 KimRobs87
You guys do ?
I once got mental some time ago last year, kept on testing and one (probably an evap line) looked faintly positive when I zoomed in and enhanced. Boy was I disappointed when AF came.

And now I am just somewhat scared I think.

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bleu18 · 30/05/2018 06:13

Thanks for replying IHateToCashew
I am afraid I don’t.
Been trying my best to not go overboard like last time. 😂

I think I would run to the pharmacy later, but might save it till like a couple of days more.

Been trying to keep myself busy so as to not think about it. 😰

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bleu18 · 30/05/2018 14:40

I think I am going crazy in here.
I keep going back looking at the same test thinking it is getting clearer than when I took the first photo. I know, I shouldn’t do that because it is well over the time frame. 😬

I think I might cave in and just do another test. I don’t think I can wait 48hrs. 😂

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Patienceofatoddler · 30/05/2018 14:53

I can see a line but looks quite near the edge...

I would be buying a FRER right now 😀

Although if you patience I imagine you would get a very solid line within 24-48 hours.

Best of luck!

MustBeThursday · 30/05/2018 15:31

That looks like the sort of test I used with DC2. My line at equivalent of 5 days late looked just like that. 2 days later I had an unquestionable solid line!

sexnotgender · 30/05/2018 19:56

Looks pretty positive to me! Congratulations.

bleu18 · 30/05/2018 20:08

Thank you @Patienceofatoddler @MustBeThursday and @sexnotgender for your replies.

I have bought a new cheapy test, trying to hold it off for 48 hrs to see if the line will get darker. But I will probably cave in and do one soon. But holding it off to at least do a FMU.

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Ells0204 · 30/05/2018 21:28

I’d say that was a BFP! FX for you. I would recommend a FRER they’re a little expensive but worth it. Keep us posted plssss! X

Torie10 · 30/05/2018 21:37

I can see a line. It doesn't look like an evap line to me.

Fingers and toes crossed for you xx

bleu18 · 31/05/2018 07:08

Thank you for your replies @Ells0204 and @Torie10

So i did another test. It was what I could get my hands on, (have I mentioned I am abroad, Dubai to be specific) and it has left me scratching my head more. Attaching photos.

I tried ordering FRERs but they won’t come until like the 6th of June.

Should I splurge on a clearblue at this point ?
I don’t really like them and whenever I just test on a ‘whim’ I usually go anything but clearblue.

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Ells0204 · 31/05/2018 07:43

I can definitely see those! Well in that case maybe just keep doing these tests every 24/48 hours and FX but it does look like a BFP and hopefully the lines will get darker! X

Patienceofatoddler · 31/05/2018 08:04

There definitely looks to be something there - So frustrating isn't it when it's not dark enough to 'believe' Blush

I would be treating it as a hesitant positive and test again in 24 or 48 hours if you can wait I that long.

bleu18 · 31/05/2018 08:48

Thanks @Ells0204 I think I will do another one. In a few days. If I can wait that long. 😂

@Patienceofatoddler it is better in real life, although yes it is really faint. It still hasn’t fully sunk in, especially with all the disappointments I had before where I would even insist blood tests cos I know ‘I am’ and yet I really wasn’t.

I think what worries me more are the cramps too. Sometimes they are barely there, and sometimes it just feels like I am gonna start any time soon. 😰

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Patienceofatoddler · 31/05/2018 09:28

@bleu18 When's AF due do you think?

It's so hard - with my miscarriage I had really faint lines for over a week post AF I knew thins weren't 'right'.

I got my BFP a couple weeks ago and honestly it was so faint until a day or two after AF was due.

Early testing really is the biggest stress although naturally we can't help it.

Keeping my fingers crossed for you.

If your close to AF arriving I would try again later or tomorrow morning.

Good Luck! X

bleu18 · 31/05/2018 09:36

@Patienceofatoddler delayed by 3 days now if I will base it on a 28 Day cycle.

I am usually on 25-27 days, but there were a few instances where I did not come for almost 2 months and the doctor said I had cysts and that the egg didn’t release.

Since coming off the pill it’s usually 25-27 only, last month though it was 31 days. But generally I will am currently 3 days delayed of AF.

Shouldn’t I be getting darker lines by now ?
It just gets too worrying, with everything that could happen. I don’t even wanna say all the not so good possibilities in my head right now.

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bleu18 · 31/05/2018 09:37

Sorry @Patienceofatoddler for the very long reply. 😂

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Patienceofatoddler · 31/05/2018 09:43

Eurgh if your periods are irregular then it's really hard to guess.

If you ovulated later than you realised it could just be very early.

I would just test each morning and see how it progresses - It's a really tough position to be in Sad x x

bleu18 · 31/05/2018 09:51

@Patienceofatoddler I think I would be doing just that.

At least this time I really am seeing something ! 😬

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