Struggling 😣

[Torie10]

Hi All.

I am trying for baby number 2. I know I'm so so lucky to already be a mummy.

I lost my 2nd baby at 13 weeks and have been TTC every month since. And it doesn't seem to be happening.

currently waiting for my period .. doing a pregenacy test every day 😣😣all negative.

I feel like I'm going mad. all I can see is pregnant ladies xx

Hi Torie10,

That sounds really difficult. I hope you get the good news you're hoping for. I can imagine it's really hard when you want something so badly and it's on your mind, it seems to be everywhere.
I'm currently trying for my 1st, and everyone at work seems to be pregnant or just had a baby!
Wishing you the best of luck with your journey! :) xx

Thank you Leah. I feel guilty that I feel bad when I already have a little one.

It's just I feel pregnant with my 2nd as a surprise and I think you then have the dream. so when it's taken away it's hard.

good luck with your journey .. Have you been trying long xx

I'm sorry to hear about your loss @torie10 that must have been rough. I think it's probably natural to want another child after the shock of mc. Keep trying - I'm sure it will happen for you. Fingers crossed

Thank you Bas xxx x

Hey Torie10,

I've not been trying very long honestly but it feels like ages. It's been about 7 weeks since I came off contraceptives and I've only just had my first proper period. I'm hoping this is my month but realistically I know it can take a long time for your body to get back to normal.

It must be really hard to have all those hopes and then to lose that, I'm sorry for your loss. I know it's hard but I'm sure if you keep trying it will happen for you. You don't need to feel guilty, it's natural to want to have more babies and expand your family. I wish you all the best xxx