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Anyone want to join me for the 2ww?

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Tidyhomewannabe · 28/05/2018 14:20

I have 11 days before af is due - we only dtd on cd6 and I have a 29 day cycle so I am not holding out much hope, but still symptom spotting if anyone wants to join me in the craziness of ttc !

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Kr250710 · 08/06/2018 19:53

@DartmoorDoughnut not out until af is here hun! I had negative this morning but still trying to remain hopeful as no af yet! Now 3 days late. Fingers crossed.

@Kescilly I’m so sorry Hun. Big hugs!

@Fae1989 same thing - you’re not out until af arrives Hun. Xx

Hope next month is the month for everyone who’s already out xx

Kescilly · 08/06/2018 20:14

Thanks guys, you’re really sweet. I’m not sure I’m going to be joining you next cycle, we’ll see.

Bas27 · 08/06/2018 20:45

@hidcat I hope so!
Tried a frer at 11dpo and bfn.
Symptoms have gotten worse though. I don't actually remember far back enough to accurately say if these match my old pms or not but I have

  • sore boobs
  • back ache
-cramping -extreme fatigue
  • I have started peeing twice an hour!
  • semi frequent dizziness
  • milky cm (sorry tmi)

That being said I think it's rare that the frer is wrong.

@dartmoordougnut you're not out until Af.
Try testing again in a few days. Do you have a squinted for us?
How many dpo are you?
Also, with the lloyds test dip you dip the stick in fmu or was it actually in the afternoon? Sorry for the 20questions!

MrsSnootyPants2018 · 08/06/2018 21:10

Okay I'm new guys!!

I'm 9dpo today and for 24 hours had slight nausea and cramp type feelings. Nausea never happen on my period so I tested and obviously got a bfn!

I knew it was too early and now my hopes are just shattered!

Fae1989 · 08/06/2018 21:21

@bas27 good luck! Lots of symptoms there, fingers crossed for you!

@Kr250710 thanks for your
comment, none of us are out til AF arrives hey! Good luck to you, hope she stays away!

@MrsSnootyPants2018 Welcome! Ah don’t lose hope! I did exactly the same thing and bought a test this evening (when I’d promised myself I’d sit on my hands and not test) and it was a BFN. I’m 9DPO. When is AF due for you? Don’t lose hope, I know it’s disappointing but like the ladies say, you’re not out til AF comes to town! Fingers crossed for you :).x

Bas27 · 08/06/2018 21:21

@snooty I think it's fair to say we've all been there.
Me; a few times... this week 🙄

Welcome :)

MrsSnootyPants2018 · 08/06/2018 21:27

@Fae1989 due in 14/15 June. Been tracking a while and it's been pretty spot on.

I did a calcite thing on the clear blue website which said the earliest I could test was the 11 of June.

Fae1989 · 08/06/2018 21:33

@MissSnootyPants2018 hang in there! Like @bas27 says we’ve all been there and it sucks! I feel like it’s reliving disappointment to test as much as I have done so I am waiting and if AF doesn’t come then I'll test again!

Lots of luck to all you ladies. You’re all awesome and so understanding! Literally no one else gets where I’m coming from haha x

Bas27 · 08/06/2018 21:42

Baby dust to all ☄️
You guys get it and it's great.
DH is super excited/supportive but he can't poas.... so instead he speculates for a bit and then goes off to do something else. Usually play a game!
He's on boob watch though which I think he particularly enjoys ATM. Trying to notice any changes.
How are everyone's OHs?

DartmoorDoughnut · 08/06/2018 22:42

@Bas27 I’m 15/16dpo I think, last AF started 11th May but it is my first one since DS so not 100% sure of on dates (went off CM) or cycle length but they were 28days bang on pre DS. Lloyds test was dipped with an afternoon wee.

@Kr250710 3 days late with no +ve sucks, sorry lovely, bodies are awkward buggers sometimes! Flowers

Anyone want to join me for the 2ww?
Anyone want to join me for the 2ww?
MrsSnootyPants2018 · 08/06/2018 23:50

@Fae1989 I just feel totally out :-(

Is there any chance a bfp will show?

HidCat · 09/06/2018 06:18

@DartmoorDoughnut I'm so sorry things don't look promising for you.

@Kescilly sorry AF got you too. Hopefully the short cycle is just an anomaly.

@Fae1989 🤞

@Bas27 all those symptoms could go either way tbh but keeping everything crossed for you. 🤞 Loving the hunny boob watch 😆

@MrsSnootyPants2018 one of the hazards of testing early! I hope you're ok? You're not out yet so don't let it get you too down.

Nowt to report from me really, CD5 so riding the July Bus already.

DartmoorDoughnut · 09/06/2018 06:52

@HidCat thank you! I just want AF to start now so I know my cycles are regular so I can plan next month!

Fae1989 · 09/06/2018 07:18

@hidcat everything crossed for July for you lovely!

@MrsSnootyPants2018 until AF you’re still in! I felt the same last night but staying positive and if she arrives then we just have to focus on July! Chin up :)

@DartmoorDoughnut chin up lovely, if it’s the July bus for us hoping that is definitely all our months (if not this month. I know how you feel re AF turning up, I keep thinking at least if she’s coming I can focus on next month.

Kr250710 · 09/06/2018 07:52

Hi ladies,

@MrsSnootyPants2018 welcome - don’t let it get you down hun, you’ve tested before af is due so could still change yet :)

@DartmoorDoughnut any sign of af yet?? If you said she was there on 11th May then she would have been due yesterday?

@Fae1989 fingers crossed for you.

Nothing to report here - still no af ...now four days late. Haven’t re-tested yet and not sure when to.

Lots of baby dust to everyone xx

Fae1989 · 09/06/2018 07:57

@kr250710 four days late is promising lovely! Fingers crossed for you! Test when you’re ready to, let us know how you get on :) x

DartmoorDoughnut · 09/06/2018 08:02

@Fae1989 July bus it is! I refuse to test in the TWW again though!

@Kr250710 if AF had returned at 28days then yes but I guess my cycles aren’t regular yet, I did have a long bleed (about 8days) so maybe that’s put it out of sync? Although last time she did turn up at dead on 28days but then this time around I haven’t might weaned yet so maybe that’s throwing her out too?!

Fae1989 · 09/06/2018 08:04

@DartmoorDoughnut hoping the July bus is kind to us all! You have the right idea though, testing early so often disappoints. I’ve said the same thing, take the pressure off and going to wait until AF is late before testing, even if I desperately want to test! Good luck lovely x

Kr250710 · 09/06/2018 08:22

@Fae1989 and @DartmoorDoughnut I totally agree and never test before af is late anymore...disappoints far too much... I can’t take the heart break. @Fae I did a test yesterday (clear blue) and was negative hence the reluctance :/

@DartmoorDoughnut they do say that breastfeeding can affect af so possibly and also if you had a long bleed 8 days in that has also possibly thrown it out - hugs to you my lovely.

Keeping everything crossed for everyone. Xxx

Fae1989 · 09/06/2018 18:32

@kr250710 was it a digital test? I feel like they take ages to show positive. Good luck :) x

Kr250710 · 09/06/2018 19:14

@Fae1989 yes it was the clear blue digital with the weeks indicator. I’ve just got some others though so will retest either tomorrow or Monday if still no af xx

Fae1989 · 09/06/2018 19:16

@kr250710 I used one of those a few years ago and it didn’t show a positive until I was over a week late if that helps xx

WaitingforDaffodils · 09/06/2018 19:42

Hello,

I'm new to TTC and wanted to join in. Honestly, we only tried for the first time a week ago and, as far as I can work out, I could only be pregnant if I ovulated later on CD18th/19th. So it seems highlyunlikely.

However (I swore I wouldn't symptom check or do early tests...narrator: hahahaHAHA). I have had stomach cramps, been extremely fatigued, sensitive to smell have a sore throat/little cold and sore boobs. So now I'm wondering if I'm not out of the game this month?

AF is due 16th so I guess I'll just wait...and I know the chances of being lucky C1 are minute but I'm just so ready (after years of waiting) to have a baby now! Grin

HidCat · 09/06/2018 22:26

@WaitingforDaffodils welcome to the crazy lol. Some people do catch First cycle so you never know

WaitingforDaffodils · 09/06/2018 23:22

Thanks @HidCat thanks! I swore I wouldn't go apeshit crazy a bit weird but tonight I got DH to stop eating dinner to feel if my boobs were heavier and then stopped him again and made him eat some of my orange ice lolly to see if it tasted of pickled onions Grin.

I guess crazy is the new normal! Thanks for having me though it's so lovely watching women go through the same stages and support each other.