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20 replies

Sleepycat91 · 07/05/2018 09:42

I took a ER rapid results on thursday and had a pretty good positive. I waited two days and took a FRER and the line was a bit fainter, ive left it two days again and used my last FrEr and the lines so faint now. Im expecting to start bleeding and suprised im not already. I couldnt get positives on anything except the first response brand which is why i kept testing. Ive got no symptoms other than my boobs feel like a bag of rocks, but if my levels are dropping that quickly; i cant understand why im not bleeding already. If i loose this one, this is my third in as many months 😭 i dont know what to do

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Sleepycat91 · 07/05/2018 09:55

There is a line on the last one but is a really bad squinter.

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winterwarmers · 07/05/2018 10:00

didn't want to read and run i have no advice but hopefully someone who does will be along x

Sleepycat91 · 07/05/2018 10:19

Just so stressfull and both devastating. I cant even go to the drs for 3 weeks as im on training for my new job which needs 100% attendance. I know my gp wont do bloods after 12 and i leave at 7am ams dont get back until 6pm

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Thumbellini · 07/05/2018 10:53

Can you ring your dr and get them to ring you back? If you have had 3 chemicals in a row they may do further investigations. So I would make sure it is logged with my GP at least. Bless you, it is so gutting xx

Sleepycat91 · 07/05/2018 11:10

Gps are closed today so unless i speak to my trainer and can miss some training which im unlikely to get the okay to do, its a sitting and waiting for now. I thought i would have bled by now though if my levels have dropped that dramatically. I should be 5 weeks now x

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SwingLow · 07/05/2018 11:47

I'm sorry OP I've had two like this it really is devastating. You could still take a couple of days before you start bleeding. If I were you I would prepare for the bleeding to start and make a doctor's appointment for when you can attend to discuss the situation with your doctor. Everything could be fine or there could be an issue they can medicate for. Take care of yourself.

winterwarmers · 08/05/2018 19:37

@Sleepycat91 did you manage to se the gp or test again?

Sleepycat91 · 08/05/2018 20:13

Still getting bfn on cheapies, going to try a first response with fmu tomorrow. I cant get to gp or early clinci until after the 30th. Still no bleeding, boobs are awful still and felt queasy earlier. Just would think considering i should be 5 weeks, even the cheapies would react x

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lollypop13 · 08/05/2018 20:57

I had this at 5 weeks and even got a couple of the sensitive Clearblue digital ones saying positive, I started bleeding a week later. It is devastating. I hope you're ok x

Sleepycat91 · 09/05/2018 06:36

I think its safe to say im going to start bleeding any day. Just got a bfn on a first response so rather than go up every 48hrs my levels have dropped to nothing now 😭 x when should i go drs if i dont start bleeding? X

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KurlyWurly88 · 09/05/2018 15:56

Also didn’t want to read and run. This happened to me last month (on FRER, Clearblue and supermarket cheapies)!
I must have tried all sorts of brands, but ended up bleeding at 5.5 weeks. I got positives on all of them, but very faint.

There are all kinds of ‘positive’ threads where it does work out. I saw the doctor at 6 weeks, then he sent me for a scan as bleeding was not heavy, and I was still testing positive.

A week later (scan at 7 weeks) confirmed my body had done its job and expelled pregnancy alongside a BFN.

I know it’s not a ‘positive’ story, but trying to let know the process I went through. The gp and epu guys mainly shrugged shoulders and said there’s not a lot you can do at this early stage aside from let nature take its course. If this is your third in a row - perhaps they should investigate why?

Sending hugs and Flowers

Peachy92 · 09/05/2018 16:02

I'm so sorry, are you always testing at the same time - like FMU? In case it's just diluted too much and it's still so early? xx

Sleepycat91 · 09/05/2018 16:52

Yeah always been fmu with the first responses so i can compare the lines with as much accuracy as possible. Tried to get in at gp and could only offer me an unsuitable app next week so will just have to wait. I still have sore boobs. Just worried im not bleeding yet. This up in the still not knowing if im coming or going and not in a position to A go to the drs or B an early clinic. If i just started bleeding i could just move on but even with a bfn i still feel like there's a chance even though i know theres not. Am i open to infection if i dont start bleeding? Womb infection and a hysterectomy would be all i needed, i think that would break me if that happened

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Pandoraphile · 09/05/2018 18:04

It does sometimes take a long time for your body to 'let go'. It doesn't look like a viable pg with the tests getting fainter I'm afraid. I think I'm right in saying that if you don't start to bleed on your own, then you can have medical management to induce bleeding. Thanks

Sleepycat91 · 09/05/2018 21:24

My cm is still quite heavy so ive had a sweep around with some tissue (gross i know) and there was very light pink tinge to it but not bloody. My cervix is still very much closed though!

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2furbabies · 10/05/2018 20:14

Could it be your drinking loads of fluid because you know your pregnant ? I had so much my lines were neg after I'd already had a positive until I was more pregnant x

mocktales · 10/05/2018 20:18

How are you op?

Sleepycat91 · 10/05/2018 20:36

I used fmu every time. Im passing a tiny bit of blood on and off but only see it if i have a sweep inaide with tissue ( gross i know). I bled more around 5/6 weeks with my boy which is when they diagnosed my bicorn. I have gps appointment tomorrow eve and i think im going to get sent to a and e for emergency scans as starting to show ectopic symptoms. Im hanging on so much to that glimmer everything will be okay but i know it wont be x

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Peachy92 · 12/05/2018 15:38

Hope you're ok @Sleepycat91 xx

2furbabies · 23/05/2018 01:55

@Sleepycat91 how Are you doing xx

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