Hey! So I'm relatively new here and just thought I'd ask a few opinions!
Myself and my other half have been together 4 years.. we have a mortgage we are settled! I have a step son (my partners son) & he is 8. Myself and my partner have spoken about me coming off birth control eventually so we can ttc which is very exciting! When speaking about it a week or so ago, I mentioned perhaps me just taking the rest of the pills I have (before I'd need a pill check) which would take me to mid June. My other half is not someone who likes to plan, he prefers things to just happen! He said he would rather I just go ahead and stop the pill without him knowing as such and just let it happen. I know that has almost given me the go ahead but I kind of feel weird about doing that..? What does everyone else think? I almost think I should get to that point and then say to him 'I've come off birth control by the way' lol I don't know...