TTC after Pregnancy Loss Thread 20 - Fx for 2019 babies

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Another thread for us all - I'm hoping I've got everyone's details in the list below, I copied it from our previous thread.

PassTheAfterEights 33 C6 TTC#1
BadBadBeans 33 C1 TTC#2 (1 cycle ttc pre MC)
hayleyfx 24 C4 TTC#1
Claire138 28 C4 TTC#1
Lovewinemorethanhusband 37 C3 TTC#3
Blondcat 36 C8 TTC#1
Sweetpea0318 38 C1 TTC#2 (7 months TTC pre MC)
Dulwichdays 34 C4 TTC#1 (4 cycles TTC pre MC)
Weasledee C3 TTC#3
BabynameEdie 30 C2 TTC#1
Yellowdaffodils86 31 C2 TTC#1 (1 cycle pre mc)
Boboelephant 35 C4 TTC#2 (9 cycles TTC pre MMC after EP)
Wellthisisunexpected 34 TTC#2 awaiting AF
Sloeberrygin 36 C1 TTC#2
Hidcat 35 C1 TTC#2 (3 Cycles TTC pre MC)
DaisyMay25 27 C8 TTC#1
Rdm10 34 C2 TTC#2
Zarala 36 (to be) TTC#2
SerenaOverjoyed 28 C1 TTC#1 (ttc 1 cycle pre mc)
KnitKitty 30 C1 TTC#1

@Martydog sorry you had go the surgical route, but it stops it dragging in at least and now you can move forward easier hopefully.
Hope you are ok.

@Boboelephant glad all tests are ok, thats a relief for you. Things sound quite promising this month for you, i have my FX.
Wow you have resisted the frer, well done. Are you a day ahead of me, 10dpo?

Haha thanks @BabynameEdie! I like your enthusiasm. Happy to share chart. Opinions welcome!!!

Thankyou @YellowDaffodils86! It is a relief. Yep 10dpo. Getting up early with DS and work has made it easier!

@Boboelephant oooh we're almost chart twins!! At least temp line shape wise... fingers crossed this is good news for us both 🤞🤞

@BabynameEdie oh my gosh we are!!!! Fingers crossed for us both!!!!

@Boboelephant I got worried it started to dip again over last two days - any thoughts?

Wish I'd had as much shagging as you guys! Lol 😂
Going to start temping next cycle.
I don't think I O'd this cycle. Went thru the motions but nothing came to fruition!

@BabynameEdie I don't know but I had the same worry!! Also desperately hoping that day 7 was an implantation dip. But I don't even know of that's definitely a thing!! Big guns @Cakelaur and @Claire138 can you help???
@L1zz13 haha JKS!!! I like doing it as it's nice to know for sure that I am ovulating! Especially as since I've been charting I ovulated day 17, day 22 and day 16!!

@Boboelephant I know me too re dip on 7dpo - funny it was exactly the same day for us both. I feel like we're calling on the wise words of @Cakelaur and @Claire138 to satisfy our tww craziness- it's much more legit than googling, right?!
Another bfn for me today. Didn't have a frer so cracked out the big guns with a clear blue digital. OOPS 🤷🏻‍♀️😬

@L1zz13 the charting satisfies my need for an element of control over something really we have no control over 😂 that's the best way I can describe why I do it! Keeps my craziness at bay. Until the tww that is! 🤪🤪
You never know about O..they can be sneaky and not show a surge - I rarely get a positive OPK, I think it happens when I'm asleep! So temping also helps with that. You're not out til af shows! 🤞

@boboelephant and @babynameedie 🤣🤣 I know the TWW crazy all too well!! When I looked at your charts I immediately thought implantation dip!! Also you both look pretty steady in your LP compared to your FP. It will be interesting to see what your temperature does tomorrow...see if it stays up or starts to decrease. I have fingers and toes crossed for you all 🤞🤞🤞

Thank you @Claire138 I know we just won't know for a few more days but it's so nice to have people who care share their thoughts! How are YOU?!! X

Thanks @babynameedie it’s so lovely to have all you girls!! For TWW crazy, venting and just moral support! 😊
Still an anxious mess but all day morning sickness has kicked in these last few days. Really hoping it’s a good sign as I never had it with the bub I mc. Have my scan booked for next Tuesday but so nervous!! Hope you will be joining this other world of crazy very soon! ❤️

@Claire138 good luck with the scan! I hope the sickness isn't too bad for you.

@HidCat any news on LH surge? 🤞

@Claire138 ahh that's great news (well, I'm sure the sickness isn't great but as you say, it's def a good sign!). Let us know how scan goes on Tuesday. Hope you can keep busy until then xx

@Claire138 good luck, got everything crossed for you!! All day morning sickness is the one thing that I don’t miss (but will happily go through again) it’s a good sign that hormones are rising normally fx for your scan!! 🤞
Ooh got everything crossed for you both 🤞 @Boboelephant @BabynameEdie

@Boboelephant well you couldn't have timed BD better if you'd tried! Perfect example of JKS!!! I've got a great feeling about this month for you. Especially seeing as you're a little more relaxed about testing. You've done everything you could do! Dip looks great for implantation!! Temps are well up above coverline. How long is your LP usually?

@BabynameEdie crack open an frer!!!!! Temps are still up!! And implantation dip just like @Boboelephant eek!! I'm so excited for this week!!! I just know it's gonna be a mad month like it was last month for bfps!!! MAY MIRACLES!!!

Don't worry about individual dips and peaks. Look at the overall pattern. Every time it dips it's just oestrogen winning, every peak... progesterone wins. Look at my bfp charts...
both had weird highs and lows. My November one at least had an upwards projection. My March bfp was a rubbish chart and this bean is now 9 weeks!!

@Claire138 how far along are you now?

And the award for making an entire bold message without realising.... goes to um... me!!! 🙈 sorry!!

Thanks @hidcat @babynameedie and @hayleyfx just trying to take it a day at a time. Hope you guys get that BFP really soon 🤞
@cakelaur I’m 6+3, at scan I’ll be 7+3. Last bub stopped growing at 6+4 last time so I’m at an anxious time. Hope you are doing well!!

Haha @Cakelaur I love how BOLD you are 😂😀👏 no idea why that happens it does it all the time for me. Yes need to get a frer done - waiting for them to arrive in post!
Do frers show up earlier than clear blue? And should I wait til FMU tomorrow? (Am I patient enough....)
So glad you're at 9 weeks !! Woohoo 👏👏

@BabynameEdie getting ready today but negative on opk this morning. Going to test again when I get home from work!

Thanks @Claire138!

@Cakelaur it's going so fast!

That meant to say getting ewcm today. Bloody auto correct!

AF has arrived! Bad enough but it now means we have to have a secret sexathon whilst on holiday with both sets of parents and DC!!!! in one cottage!!!!

@HidCat haha I thought you meant you were limbering up 💃🏻🏃🏻‍♀️🤸‍♂️🧘‍♀️ and I was thinking "yeah get ready!" EWCM v positive sign tho 👌

@weasledee urgh sorry she got you 😡 and don't worry, nifty ninja style sexathon is def possible! 🤺🤺

Sorry she got you @weasledee

I think af has arrived but my cycles seem to be all over the place. I thought this was fertile week but obviously not. So it either means my 1 day af wasn't af and I had a 59 day cycle. Or it was and I had a 16 day cycle. Ok so the 50 day one seems more sensible. Argh