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Please tell me I'm seeing things!

19 replies

uhoh45 · 25/04/2018 16:33

Is this a line or am I seeing things!? I literally got them home and peed on one don't even think there was a lot of pee hence the half control line 🙈

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boymum9 · 25/04/2018 16:33

I see it!

Talcott2007 · 25/04/2018 16:35

I see a line too

BexleyRae · 25/04/2018 16:36

I see it too x

uhoh45 · 25/04/2018 16:37

Oh fuck this is not good news 😔 (I feel bad saying that on the conception board ❤️) but ffs what an idiot I am!!! Argh

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StylishMummy · 25/04/2018 16:39

Do you have another test you can pee in a cup and use that way? Might be clearer. Sorry it's not the news you want

Highfever · 25/04/2018 16:40

I see it too. Sorry it isn't the result you wanted.

glasshalffull2018 · 25/04/2018 16:42

It's quite faint so I would suggest going for another test, I feel sorry that you could be pregnant it's devastating when you don’t want to have a child

SweetheartNeckline · 25/04/2018 16:42

I can see it.

Sorry this isn't good news for you. You're not stupid - it's very brave that you've tested and got a definitive answer.

The line isn't super dark either so you're probably quite early in the pregnancy. That should buy you time to consider your options - and their are options, you do not have to continue with the pregnancy if you don't want to. There is a Pregnancy Choices board on here where you can speak freely or read quietly.

Flowers for you.

uhoh45 · 25/04/2018 16:47

Thank you for your kind words.

It couldn't be worse. It's my exes. I left him literally the day after we last had sex. What a parting gift he gave me! I cannot keep it I'm too selfish I have a 4 year old and I've just got my life back. I love the life we have together we have so much fun I can't take such a huge step back. I feel physically sick.

I don't know if I should tell him?

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Justwaitingforaline · 25/04/2018 17:04

I’d take another test before you make any decisions OP Flowers

glasshalffull2018 · 25/04/2018 17:20

Unless you want to keep the baby don’t tell the ex because he could try and convince you into having the baby when you don’t want it. I would make your mind up first and then only tell your ex if you are keeping it.

RLOU88 · 25/04/2018 17:33

The test looks dodgy to me the control line too. Take another before putting yourself under too much stress. Good luck Flowers

unicorncow · 25/04/2018 18:07

I'd do another test to confirm although it does look quite positive. It's up to you what you want to do though and it's not selfish at all,
Sounds like you're putting your child first so that's not selfish. Hope you're okay

qumquat · 25/04/2018 18:47

It doesn't look reliable to me as the control line isn't all there. Take another test tomorrow and try to stay as calm as you can. Flowers

JustVent · 25/04/2018 20:19

I really think you need a more reliable test that a smudge before you panic and/or tell him.

That isn’t the best looking test.

uhoh45 · 25/04/2018 20:25

Yes i know. I've taken another one and it's a very faint line. I've ordered a digital one and will go and grab a first response in the morning before I do anything.

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uhoh45 · 25/04/2018 20:37

The second one if you wanted to see it. It's very faint and the line is pink in rl. It was about 45 minutes and a glass of wine later.

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uhoh45 · 26/04/2018 11:00

No denying this one!!

Does anyone know if I can self refer to bpas for NHS treatment or do I have to go through my gp?

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RLOU88 · 26/04/2018 12:06

Do you mean treatment as in a termination? It depends on your area. Try calling your nearest Mary Stopes and see x

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