Long cyclers we re the last ones standing in the tww and we re not taking it anymore guzzle down your grapefruit juice and pop those b6 pills..short cycle we re coming for you!

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Looking for luvely ladies with long cycles who want to swap tips on how to shorten your cycle..doesnt matter how bonkers I ve tried it all !😘

Sorry to hear that @gracesmom28 it's so disheartening to get that positive and then have it go away. Especially as now it'll be another 2 months of trying for me

It is really disheartening thinking of you, I hope your blessed with baby dust soon xxx

@Aph413 no! Im shocked..really thought with your cramping and temps ud get a positive this morning. Soo sorry hun x❤are u gonna tell OH? not nice for him but u deserve a massive hug, ive been there before and its shit!

@Gracesmom28 sorry to hear that hope ur doing k x

So sorry to hear that both of you.
Although still some hope until AF comes 🤞🏻

I've just type my reply 3 times only for my phone to flip out each time and delete it.
I'm desperate for my BFP but I'm trying not to get my hopes up so I won't be testing now until the 10th if my period stays away.

If the bitch does turn up I've just treated myself to a little introduction into the world of cloth sanitary towels which will hopefully feel a lot nicer than the rustly plastic disposables I seem to keep finding.
I know they aren't everyones cup of tea but they're really pretty and I've ordered one that says twat mat which amuses me no end.

Next shopping trip is for inositol but I cant decide which form to buy. You can get powders or some capsules with other supplements but I need to research first.

@Aph413 i hope its all a mix up for u and shitty tests that dnt work it can happen..i just got told on another thread(yes im totally addicted to mumsnet! lol) to ignore last weds high temp cause i was drinking tues nite, soo i did and fertility friend thinks i ovulated on the 29th! I really hope im not getting my hopes up for nothing.

@Aph413 i just realised what u said..twat mat 😂luv it!

Ohh good luck! That would give you a lovely short cycle if you did.
Yep it says twat mat, it's amazing. Can't wait for it to get here

Well sumbody else has now said it could b because u switched to taking temps vaginally, way to burst my bubble lol i literally have a headache from over analysing it! Whats inositol?

Oh true, switching to vaginal halway through my last cycle made mine jump all over the place. Maybe click discard on all temps not done vaginally?
Inositol is sometimes prescribed to people with pcos because it helps regulate hormones and insulin resistance. People on the ovusense support group often seem to swear by it

So it seems I was using first respobse rapid results not early results. They aren't meant to be used until your miss your period . Still negative on internet cheapies but I'm now stupidly hopeful. Still determined I'm going to wait and stop looking at the stupid evap line on my test from this morning

Frer and not frrr today. Still feel crampy. Finally convinced it's real.

I can see a line! get a digital for in the morning i dnt know how uve managed to not tell OH the suspense is killing me lol what a rollercoaster the past couple of days

My emotions are all over the place. This is ridiculous. I always thought I would realise my period was late test and get a massive bfp. Not this weird positive and then negative crampy bloaty uncertain time.

I know i was the exact same when it happened to me but thats 2positives uve had now surely that has to count for sumthin. If u get a positive on a digital 2morro id say ur all gd hun.

I have 1 digital I'm going to hold onto as long as I can. I've ordered some more frer from amazon and once I get a nice strong line I'll use the digital

@Aph413 yh im just impatient lol im saying to myself just now dnt test until 14dpo but i ll prob cave in n test early like u lol im only 6dpo and its goin in slow already

I took my digital. After a 1 hour hold and a massive cup of tea. Of course it was negative haha. That'll teach me. However my frer is stronger.
Not even a squinter now

Wow thats amazing how quickly its becoming stronger..crazy. Yh ive done that before lol makes ur pee to dilute to get a positive oh well theres always 2morro for the digital. Ive been worrying in my work recently i do quite a manual job keep thinking it cant b gd during the tww to b doing so much physical activity

Same here. I do care work so there's a lot of moving people about. As soon as I cam I'll be letting them know so I can move onto lighter duties.
For the tww though it's fine really because anything happening is too small to be affected by lifting and the like

I know but it makes me kinda paranoid keep think all this straining and heavy lifting cant help with implantation..oh well not much we can do eh? I dnt want to tel ppl im ttc just need to be careful

I had a look on Google about it, most of it's to do with heavy lifting in early pregnancy but on livestrong it mentions implanation and ttc and that continuing with your level of activity from before ttc is fine. It's generally talking about exercise but since that includes weight lifting I'd say you'll be ok in your tww.
I know it might not be much comfort, the tww is terrifying to me but we have to try to relax as stupid as it is.
I've got my fingers crossed for you

Thanx u too..it seems to more and more heavy lifting recently just my luck lol

Goodness me. Well hopefully you get your bfp at the end of this and then work has got to put you on lighter duties!

I was thinking earlier today whether there is anyone out there who would just accept something like my bfp as it and not feel the need to do a digital test.