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Long cyclers we re the last ones standing in the tww and we re not taking it anymore guzzle down your grapefruit juice and pop those b6 pills..short cycle we re coming for you!

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thisisouryrfx18 · 17/04/2018 16:37

Looking for luvely ladies with long cycles who want to swap tips on how to shorten your cycle..doesnt matter how bonkers I ve tried it all !😘

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Aph413 · 10/05/2018 11:58

It's a good feeling getting a positive opk.
Turns out there were no kittens, it was a scam. Just what I needed

thisisouryrfx18 · 10/05/2018 12:45

Wtf! Who does that to ppl?! Ppl really piss me off when they do stuff like that scamming and gettin u all excited for nuthin. Dnt let it get u down look on the cat protection website they have loads of lovely cats that need homes, like u said itl b a gd distraction from all the crap uve went through recently.

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Pumpkinbee · 10/05/2018 12:48

Can I join in? My cycles are at the moment between 45 to 48 days with the odd 35 or 60 thrown in once in a while. Lord knows I need some help.

Aph413 · 10/05/2018 13:11

Welcome Pumpkinbee we're all in the same boat over here. Are you trying any supplements to help with your cycle?

thisisouryrfx18 · 10/05/2018 14:51

Welcome @Pumpkinbee ! 😊

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Aph413 · 10/05/2018 18:42

@thisis I tried getting a rescue cat but because of my working hours I can't, plus we can't have a male cat with our existing boy. He gets very aggressive.

Police are involved with the scam cat now because we sent a £20 deposit to him. We're getting it back luckily but I'm still pissed I'm not getting my cat. I don't know what he thinks he's achieving conning people out of small amounts of money. Especially as he used his real name. So now he's going to get caught and get a criminal record over 20 quid. The idiot.

Looking around again now for another kitten though.

thisisouryrfx18 · 10/05/2018 19:08

Yh what a moron is he soo thick he doesnt realise that obvs ppl will involve the police oh well hell slap it into him..ul find another little kitty 🐱

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Pumpkinbee · 11/05/2018 11:06

@aph413 I am. Currently trying vitex, maca root and pre conception vitamins. I have to say I have a great deal more energy since starting the vitex and maca root. I do seem to hyper ovulate quite frequently but other than that doctors have not been able to find cause for my long cycles. Been checked for PCOS.

thisisouryrfx18 · 11/05/2018 11:08

@Pumpkinbee what does hyper ovulate mean?

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Aph413 · 11/05/2018 11:25

thisis it's releasing more than one egg per cycle.
pumpkin is your luteal phase still ok?
I know it says online anything between 28 and 45 days is normal length, ovbiously long cycles are no fun even if there is no reason for it.
What is vitex?

Aph413 · 11/05/2018 12:20

My inositol arrived in the post today. Really excited to get started with it. Online says 2-4 grams per day to help with symptoms of pcos which I know I don't have a diagnosis for but all the benefits look like they're good for anyone.
Bonus is it doesn't taste of anything, mixed it into about a shot of water and down in one. If anything it tastes slightly sweet but no aftertaste or funny taste at all. Hopefully this will really help me ovulate regularly

thisisouryrfx18 · 11/05/2018 13:00

@Aph413 thats gd it doesnt taste bad thats half the battle with pills n potions gd luck hun, we need to do sumthin proactive eh? Hows af r ur cramps gettin ne better? @Pumpkinbee at least theyr trying to investigate hope u get some answers soon❤

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Aph413 · 11/05/2018 13:27

The bleeding is getting lighter but it's still the most painful cramping I've ever had. It's to be expected I suppose, do you think I should take a pregnancy test after I've stopped bleeding to make sure all of the hormone is out my system?
Inositol is meant to help bring forward ovulation but I have no idea how long it needs to be in my system for so I don't know when to start my opks.

FlapJackered · 11/05/2018 14:08

Hi @Pumpkinbee I am taking Maca root too and found I had a lot more energy on it.
@Aph413 - I would be interested to see how you find the inositol as I may try that next cycle.
Did anyone have success with Agnus Castus/Vitex? It seems to get mixed reviews on threads and I think I am ovulating so don't want to mess that up. hmm.

Aph413 · 11/05/2018 14:28

I'll definitely let you know how I get on with it. I keep reading loads of positive things about it so fingers crossed.
I only have proof I ovulated this cycle just gone so I'm unsure on agnus castus. I'll have to see if I ovulate this cycle too.
How much maca root do you take? How long did it take for you to notice the effects?

thisisouryrfx18 · 11/05/2018 15:34

Whats maca root supposed to do?

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Aph413 · 12/05/2018 11:32

Google says
In particular, it is believed that Maca may help suppress estrogen dominance, and encourage a favorable estrogen/progesterone balance conducive to achieving pregnancy. Many women also report an increase in libido and sexual function when taking Maca.

thisisouryrfx18 · 12/05/2018 11:37

Hmmm thats a bonus lol although theres not much up with my sex drive to begin with lol😉 i just seen ur message about testing..yh id wait a wk and test to make sure uve no pregnancy hormones left sad as that is. Make sure and let ur doc know this has happened

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Aph413 · 12/05/2018 14:14

It's a fuss and a half trying to get into the doctors round here. I've been trying since I started losing.
I'm ready for this cycle now though so I'm just waiting for the bleeding to stop and then hope it didn't completely knock my timings off.
100 opks arrived today. I'll probably still start checking at CD14 because I'm always worried that my cycle will suddenly normalise and I won't have been trying at the right time.

thisisouryrfx18 · 12/05/2018 14:41

Yh gd plan i started testing a few days after af cause i thought the same better to test early n then u know for defo u didnt miss ovulation. Well im 2dpo according to clearblue opks dtd the 8th twice the 10th once the 11th and hopefully today lol im just hoping to see a temp rise over the nxt couple of days to confirm it. Im knackered! Hope ur cramps ease up

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Aph413 · 12/05/2018 15:05

Ooh fingers crossed for you. You've definitely done it enough at the right time so you can have a break Wink.
I can't wait for the cramping to be done. A usual period for me would have moved onto spotting by now. Obviously it's not a normal one but it's still dragging on a bit.

I never did get round to ordering soy for this cycle. Maybe I'll give it a go next time since it's a bit late for me now.

thisisouryrfx18 · 12/05/2018 18:01

I hope ive done enough im just gonna dtd tonite anyway lol my OH will be knackered aswell hes been at work all day haha oh well sure he ll soon perk up😜..yh but uve got ur inositol to try anyway

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Aph413 · 12/05/2018 21:58

Totally just got baby bombed through a Facebook comment...
That was fun.
I always find my husband perks right up if I suggest we go dtd Wink

thisisouryrfx18 · 13/05/2018 16:30

Ive heard ppl talking bout this before on here sorry if im being dumb but is that when someone u know drops the bomb theyr pregnant? Im crossing everything i get a high temp 2morro to confirm ive defo ovulated

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Aph413 · 13/05/2018 21:04

Yep that's exactly what it is. Never really thought of it until I started trying for a baby. Now it seems that everyone except me is having one.
Fingers crossed for you too.

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