TTC after pregnancy loss Thread 19- More cake for more babies

[Boboelephant]

I figured it out!

Sorry for all your sad frustrations ladies xx

I'm going to assume the + poas is due to a little left mc. Will let my period end and will test again.

Ugh daffodils so it's a BFN.....

Coming to the end of my AF so about to crack open the OPK and start all over again....

This month I want to use the opk I brought when do I start using them I'm day 4 now ?

Well some good news my end. I’m out of mc limbo- got a bfn today. So can crack on- though not tracking anything this month. Planning on a relaxed month with no opks today or apps until AF.

@L1zz13 argh what a pain. Maybe this is the last bit of mc? Hope it finishes up soon. How long did you go between bleeds?

@Lovewinemorethanhusband the general rule is take the number of days of your cycle and minus 17. So if you have a 28 day cycle start on day 11, 32 day cycle start on day 15... if they vary start from the earlier date so you don't miss it. Opks tell you when you are due to ovulate not when you are. So once you get the positive then get busy for the next 48 hours. Also if you are using IC's the line needs to be as dark or darker than the control line to be positive. You should watch the line get darker over the few days but it doesn't count until it's the same colour. Good luck!
@ek78 I'm so glad to hear it. It's bittersweet but so good you can start moving forward now.

Ladies is this an indent line? I don’t feel confident that there’s any colour to it, or much colour. I’m pretty sure it’s an indent, couldn’t help myself though, had to test lol. Btw - I know it’s totally invalid now. I took it a couple hours ago but only gave it a quick look, now I’ve just seen that line so I decided I had to crack it open for a closer look 😂
Frustrating!! (Oh and ignore the Rugrat pyjamas! 🤣)

@Boboelephant I’m cd28 today. So annoying being in limbo! Even worse when you keep getting indents/false positives haha! 🤦‍♀️
@ek78 I’m glad it’s over for you now and you can start to move on

@hayleyfx is that frer?? I'd say that's a definite line!!

@hayleyfx that looks like a positive to me. 🤞

Thank you both! Yeah this is a frer, I can see the line quite well in person however I just don’t know if it has colour, it looks a little white. Are FRERs bad for indents?

Looks good!

@hayleyfx that's exciting

@hayleyfx I can see a line and I’m usually totally rubbish! Where are you in your cycle?

@ek78 I remember being weirdly pleased when I got my first negative post MC. Signified to me that my body was getting back to normal.

I’ve been on a Pilates course (for work) today which has been a good distraction from the TWW, but now I’m alone in an air b n b for the evening my mind is starting to wander!

@YellowDaffodils86 sorry for the BFN, they are like a kick in the teeth aren't they.

@hayleyfx I can see a line and I'm normally rubbish at these things. Another FRER Monday FMU to see if it gets darker?

Hope everyone is enjoying the sunshine! I'm on team nights this weekend. Anyone else busy working?

Thank you all!! I’m planning on testing Monday, really confused and tbh would rather af arrive than be stuck in limbo like this! Fingers crossed but not feeling too positive, thinking it’s an indent 🙄 I feel so confused myself I must be confusing everyone here so much too! 🤣

The old witch has landed! Just had blood when wiping (tmi) and cramps have started.
Slightly gutted for a minute, but now feel pleased. Its nice things are all on schedule after MC, between having my coil removed, falling pregnant and then MC over the last few months, i think my body needs to get back to normal. I just hope i don't have to wait to long.

Good luck for those still in the tww.
For those in my boat onwards and upwards to May for Jan babies!

Okay i have taken sooooooooo many pregnancy tests in the past. I still don’t get all this indent/vaporation line stuff. @hayleyfx looks like a line to me.

Sorry @YellowDaffodils86 and @Passtheaftereights 😢

@hayleyfx I don't really understand indent lines either but I can definitely see a line. Fx this one really is your positive! Are you testing again this morning? How long are your cycles usually?
@YellowDaffodils86 sorry the witch got you but glad you're feeling positive. Onto Jan babies we go!

@hayleyfx are you really waiting until Monday???

Well ladies. I may be back ttc again. Spotting this morning!! Knew it was too good to be true. Had this around the same time with my mmc. 😭

Oh @Cakelaur I hope that's not true. Hopefully it's just a bit of pregnancy spotting. When is your scan? Keeping everything crossed for you hun! xx

Cake, oh no! Keeping everything crossed for you x

Ahhhhhhhhhhh here we go again. AF just arrived. January baby anyone? @Boboelephant @YellowDaffodils86 I'm with you for our 2019 bubbas!

@Cakelaur I can't believe it, surely it's just pregnancy spotting? Are you ok?

@Boboelephant @BabynameEdie
Yey 2019 babies. Funny if may is my month as it was the month we originally planned to start trying.
AF is in full force.
@BabynameEdie sorry old AF came.

@Cakelaur i really hope it is just spotting and nothing more.

It is just spotting. But I had the same thing around the same time with my last bfp. Scan is on Friday. Just really sad today.

Hope all you guys are ok. Xx