9dpo...talk me down!

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Hiya,

I’m going very quickly insane. I have already done 3 HPT of course all BFN. But I’m only 9dpo!! I know it’s too early to realistically be expecting to see anything. I’m fairly certain I’m out this month anyway as I track my heart rate. Had a miscarriage last year and I so want a BFP. Talk me down please. I have one test left...when should I use it?

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Do not use that last test! Wait until you’re at least 14dpo or have missed your period. It’s not worth it. Looking at a negative test is soul destroying. Good luck!

I know the feeling. I tested today at 6dpo and bfn. I am not good at resisting either, have one test left myself as well. I think if possible wait until day period is due to be more accurate. Good luck

I know you’re both right. It is so soul destroying but I know come tomorrow morning I just won’t be able to help myself! I will end up spending ages inspecting it and then I will go and buy more and so the vicious cycle continues...😭

I am 11 days past ovulation and have sore boobs, but no other symptoms to speak off. I am determined not to test until my period is late. My reasoning is if I test early and it's BFN, then not only will I not be pregnant but I will also be £15 - £20 down. Which is insult to injury in my book.
We've been TTC since last March (2017), but my partner is not always around when I ovulate (he works away), so I think we've only had 6-7 good goes at it.
Unfortunately I thought this would be easy and so I have told almost everyone I know that we are TTC. And every month I get big expectant eyes from friends, "any news?". Bugger off!!!
Be strong, put the money in a pot, and every test you don't buy is money towards baby things when it happens.

Oh I caved. And it was a BFN. I’m not sure why I was surprised to see that I have all the usual signs that AF is coming 😭 I just cannot chill!

So frustrating! By this time last time I fell pregnant it was showing up on a FRER by now so I think I’m out 😔 xx

Sorry about the miscarriage. I'm 2dpo on my first cycle I'm so excited it does not help that I can't sleep due my neighbours being noisy tonight so I thoughts are running through my mind on when I can test.

Don't have tests in the house. On the day your period is due go out and buy one test to take the next day. Testing early and squinting at evaps is the path to madness. Do yourself a favour and break the cycle.

@Oysterbabe I think I’m going to have to force myself to do that. It’s just so expensive. Thanks everyone. Starting to make me see sense! X

Oysterbabe that is very good advice ov dates and implantation time can vary so much that it’s best to wait if you can. I know that’s easier said than done!