How to spice up sex life when TTC?

[Wigglywigglywooo]

Just that really. We’ve been trying for a long time. If we weren’t ttc I don’t think we would have sex very often. We are attracted to each other and of course love each other but our sex life is a little less than passionate as of late. This isn’t helped by ttc, we have an evening routine which we are both finding....well a bit of a snooze fest! He says he doesn’t like to plan it and wants to be more spontaneous but how can it be when we are ttc? Any advise?

How do you keep your seclude interesting when ttc?

Sexy underwear usually does the trick in our house. Sometimes my sex drive is quite high, whereas DH aid sometimes too tired, but if I pop those stockings on he’s suddenly much more awake :)

So you could do this in your FW and it seems spontaneous to him, but you have put a bit of planning in x

If you’d have suggested this a few years ago then I would have gone for it! The problem is...I’ve lost a lot of confidence. I worry about my weight a lot. So I’m just not sure I would be able to muster up the courage to do this. Plus I would look bloody awful! Haha

@Wigglywigglywooo when I was feeling less than confident about my weight but I wanted to wear something sexy I bought a few Lacey Teddy's u know like the floaty things. They push the boobs right up but cover ur belly they're so nice . Usually come with matching underwear. Done my tan and hair nice and felt miles better . I find sometimes being a bit of a """""tease helps hold back a day or two from actual inter course by totally winding him up to think he's getting it haha creates some suspense

@lolacola13 might have to have a look around and see what I can find! I like your other idea too. I just sometimes he doesn’t “want” me....like there’s no passionate desire to have sex. Perhaps I need to up my game!