when did i conceive

[evie1990]

Hi all, I am really confused and stressed

My last period was on the 31st October 2017

I had intercourse once with husband on the 9th November 2017 (he works away)

Then with another man on 17th November 2017 (this was not consentual so please don't judge) 😢

I found out im pregnant on 5th December 2017 (the test says 2-3 weeks)

My due date is August 7th 2018

I am now 21 weeks along with a little girl who i am hoping is my husbands 😢
But i know she could be the other man's who I didn't consent with 😢

When do you think I conceived?

Hi evie
Was that the date of the first day of your last period? If so how long did your period last for. Unfortunately its very uncommon for you to have a period and then ovulate all in 9days. The way you would really know would be a dna test when she's born.

As apposed to it being non consentual have you spoken to anyone about this? It's important you talk to someone as this is very serious, a close family member, a priest someone who can give you words of advice

I wish you all the best and a healthy pregnancy xx

@evie1990 do you have any idea how long your cycles usually are? Because the first date (your DH) is a little early and the second date (non-consensual) is a little late. If you usually have shorter cycles e.g. 26, 27 days then the first date is more likely and if you usually have longer cycles e.g. 30 days then the second date is more likely. I’m so sorry you are going through this. Have you spoken to your husband about what happened?

My cycles are anywhere between 27-31 days so it's hard to tell. I've not spoken to husband about it as I'm too scared to tell him

I’m so sorry @evie1990 I think it could reasonably be either date. What happened isn’t your fault and you will need love and support to get over what happened. I hope you have someone in real life you can talk to

I’m afraid it really could be either. Sperm can survive for a few days internally, so even if you ovulated at day 14 it could be your husband’s but equally you could have ovulated around day 17.

I really think you need to speak to an organisation called Rape Crisis for some support. I’m so sorry this is happening to you

Could be either and honestly, you won’t know for sure until the baby is born and you’re able to do a DNA test. I’m sorry to hear you are going through this :(

When is my due date? My pregnancy date starts on the 23rd Of February. My period started on the 14th Of February and ended on the 19th.

When did I conceive? My period started on the 14th Of February and ended on the 19th. Due date is the 30th of November

@emily0808 are you ok? You've asked the same question but with different dates in about 4 threads. If your period started on the 14th and you have 28day cycles you would have conceived around the 28th. Have you had a dating scan, they might help you pin point better.

@lori2019 hi yes, yes honestly I’m trying to get more help if that makes sense. I don’t think I have a 28 day cycle. Plus when I look on calendars, it says if my last period was the 14th and I have 28 day cycles then my due date would be 21st Of November. But my due date is the 30th of February, I’m 20 weeks and 4 days today

@emily0808 if you google Concepcion calculators online they might help. If due 30th Nov then likely you conceived about 9th March.