10 DPO needing some reassurance

[Mmargaret]

I track my cycles through an app. I carry between 25 days and 28 days a cycle and this month has predicted 27.
We have tried this month. Today I'm not sure if I am 10DPO or 11 DPO. I would be 11DPO if it does work out to be a 27day cycle but 10DPO if it's 28 days.

Since 4DPO I have had lower abdomen/pelvic crampings and have been experiencing PMS like symptoms very early on. I normally get cramping and sore boobs 2 days before my period.
This is my first month trying and I'm slowly losing hope. I have tested the last two days because I'm unsure of my DPO and both have been BFN. Since 8/9DPO my breasts have been extremely sore and I have had a water white discharge which is again unusual for me with my period being 3/4 days away.
Should I be discouraged? Has anyone else had this before and it turned out to be a BFN. I have tested with tests that pick up 10ml and nothing. Help. I thought what I was experiencing might be implantation but now I'm not sure?

Until af shows up you're not out of the game. I'm 6dpo and my first month trying too (for my second) and I was convinced I felt implantation yesterday, I'd so love to test but too early (and let's face it, I could well be imagining that!). Don't lose hope just yet, the things you're feeling could well be a good sign, just try waiting until af is due (or around then) and test again. Good luck xx

www.countdowntopregnancy.com/pregnancy-test/ This is quite interesting at 10dpo 66% of people will get thier positive and at 11dpo 79.4% will get thier positive so your not out yet 😊

That's great thanks. I'd have a 3% chance if I did one today lol x

Thank you for your kind words KimRobs87. It's really hard to explain what you are feeling to people who aren't trying to conceive, this place is amazing for support and different experiences xx hope you are doing okay
Thank you for the link @ilikebread x

Hi @Mmargaret
I'm on the same boat too! 9DPO having strange symptoms and I've been POAS a lot in the past few days (impatient). It is only my first TTC cycle too. Decided the best thing for me is to wait for AF to show up up😣. I really want to keep testing but I think it's making my mood worse. I know it will probably take a while to happen but it's the 'what if' that drives us all mad I think 🤪. Good luck and I hope you get your BFP! There is another thread on here you might want to join. TTC #1 cycle 1 🙂

@rmad6716 I know it's really hard to stop thinking about it! I am going to wait until AF now. I have had three BFNs now and I don't want to see any until I have waited until AF. Good luck to you! I hope everything works out. I will find that thread! Xx